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Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

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Relationships

he says he's left her

34 replies

bluebell876 · 09/08/2015 15:20

said its over and it was awful etc etc but feels better for it and there's stuff that needs sorting (house and so on). her Facebook photo is still a photo of them though, and he said he's moved into his parents but he sent a photo that was clearly in their house. I know he could have gone back for other things etc and I don't see why he would lie as surely I'd find out (social media etc) but I have no proof that he's left her other than to take his word for it. advice please?

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TripTrapTripTrapOverTheBridge · 09/08/2015 20:22

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TripTrapTripTrapOverTheBridge · 09/08/2015 20:22

If I'm getting the right end of the stick here...

Do you both want a round of applause? Has his left his wife for you? Bet that makes you feel fantastic,woo you won sarcastic pay on the back

loveyoutothemoon · 09/08/2015 20:18

Oh-she's gone quiet!

Bubblesinthesummer · 09/08/2015 18:13

OP no one can help unless you errrm explain what you mean I your OP my crystal ball is on for a service

Anniegetyourgun · 09/08/2015 16:12

What are you all on about? Advanced search throws up one previous thread by this OP, no mention of a baby. Or am I missing something?

Anyway, I wouldn't believe this guy unless and until he turns up on your doorstep with his worldly goods in a suitcase. Actually I wouldn't even trust him then. Happened to a friend of mine, got in too deep before finding out he was married, eventually wife chucked him out so he went to friend's house, so happy for about 3 weeks, then he went off again to find himself or some such bollocks.

Georgethesecond · 09/08/2015 16:12

This OP is such an idiot she can't explain her situation in her OP, does she think we are all psychic?

Lj8893 · 09/08/2015 16:11

Oh I read that thread with the op shagging her friends brother who had a newborn. Didn't realise this was the same op!

That op was an idiot who didn't listen anyway.

CarnivalBearSetFree · 09/08/2015 16:09

If this is the same woman as the other threads then my advice would be to get off here because you obviously don't listen to any advice anyone gives you anyway.

goddessofsmallthings · 09/08/2015 16:06

Nothing to do with the OP who's been after her bestie's db for years and got lucky a week or so back?

Ok, so in what way does him leaving his dp and newborn and moving in with his parents affect you if you've not been having sex with him?

Bubblesinthesummer · 09/08/2015 16:06

Does op have other usernames as none of that was in the one I found!

The brother of friend and baby thread was deleted I think

Reginafalangie · 09/08/2015 16:03

Run to him OP!

Welcome him with open arms, I mean you cannot let a catch like this go.
He is so charming, trustworthy, caring, honourable.........oh no wait he is none of those things is he...why?

BECAUSE HE HAS BEEN SHAGGING YOU WHILE HE IS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THE MOTHER OF HIS NEW BORN.

gamerchick · 09/08/2015 16:03

Nope you're going to have to elaborate on that. No clue.

Lj8893 · 09/08/2015 15:58

I don't get who he and she are in your op? Maybe if your clearer you might get some better advice!

bluebell876 · 09/08/2015 15:57

nothing to do with someone's brother and baby?

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LIZS · 09/08/2015 15:55

Does op have other usernames as none of that was in the one I found!

AlbrechtDurer · 09/08/2015 15:52

Oh ffs. Why don't you ask Jeremy Kyle, OP? Everyone here is running out of the same advice to keep giving you.

LavenderLeigh · 09/08/2015 15:49

This isn't the guy you've been flirting with by text, whose girlfriend just had a baby and who you shagged twice by accident, is it?

Bubblesinthesummer · 09/08/2015 15:48

Are you the one who's having unprotected sex with your best friend's brother whose dp has just had his baby?

If it is you OP I thought you were having no more contact

goddessofsmallthings · 09/08/2015 15:46

Are you the one who's having unprotected sex with your best friend's brother whose dp has just had his baby?

Why don't you ask your bestie if he's moved back home?

VixxFace · 09/08/2015 15:41

This can't be the one with the newborn baby? ?

I thought you wasn't contacting him any more?

Ivegottoknow · 09/08/2015 15:37

Oh, so is he moving in with you now?

LIZS · 09/08/2015 15:33

Just seen other thread. No , he's stringing you along. There will be one excuse after another to justify contact, pics etc. The need to watch out for clues and analyse is no way to build trust between you. The "relationship" has been founded on lies, why would he need to change.

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NickiFury · 09/08/2015 15:32

Wait, is this the boyfriend who lives in his girlfriends, who has just had a baby, spare room and plays x box all of the live long day?

Ilovenannyplum · 09/08/2015 15:31

Oh I didn't realise there were more dramatic posts from the OP about the same thing

FenellaFellorick · 09/08/2015 15:30

you could always tell him to contact you when he is free to be in a relationship with you and not before.

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