I think undoubtedly yes relationships change and evolve over time but you do need a backbone of love, respect and compatibility for it to remain a good relationship through thick and thin and individual growth/difficulties etc.
Been together with dh 5 years in feb (married 4) but have been through a lot together; abusive ex, confronting my abusive childhood, him moving hundreds of miles to live together, his issues from his childhood, having twins etc. things have changed massively for us all in the time we have been together, it is love for each other and sanctuary with each other and some humour and also communication that has kept us together.
I don't believe in this idea of not being able to express things or not being able to multi-task either because you currently cant/dont or because you are a man. There is a sexist view that women are good at these things and men not naturally. I think more women than men might be trained to learn these skills and think they need them whereas men are often of the opinion that they should not learn them because they are female things.
Some people are better than others at all things naturally but I doubt there would be a natural difference between men and women on these counts. I also think they are not gifts but skills which have to be learned, practiced and refined. I am not naturally expressive and I find it really difficult to be because I was conditioned to not be expressive in childhood but it is a necessary skill in maintaining successful relationships so I have learned it for the sake of my relationship and dh, although my past conditioning makes it difficult still I think it will get easier with time and practice.
My dh struggles with multi-tasking e.g. Working while he is at home and the children are there, things have been easier since he accepted that I was not good at this through natural ability but practice and that it would make his life better and happier if he accepted that he could learn to be better at this and in fact needed to learn to be better at this because he was a working parent and he couldn't afford to choose only to do one thing at a time.