Sorry to come back to this thread but since I posted, I've clarified that it's a vent pipe and shouldn't be an issue, however...........
Today, the actually soil stack has now been erected at the edge of this flat roof, ending just on a line with the bedroom window - so it's further away than the vent pipe, which is within the middle of this flat roof - but as the flat roof isn't very wide, the new soil stack is very very close to the window.
I asked the plumber about it and said I wasn't sure if this would meet building regs. and he said he hadn't realised it might be a problem and didn't know but would look it up.
I also said what about if we sell the house and new buyers don't like the idea of the soil stack peeping over the flat roof outside the bedroom window nor the big vent pipe plonked in the middle of the flat roof, obscuring the view. Finally I said that my son who sleeps in this room wouldn't be happy about about the newly erected soil stack as I'd assured him that the other monstrosity was just a vent pipe and not a soil stack.
I said to the plumber that from what I know, soil stacks are usually sited away from windows and also higher than the main roof line. This one is slightly higher than the flat roof area but much lower than the main roof line.
So I'm back to wondering about the soil stack now - as it went up today and if I need to worry and if it'll cause any issues whilst we live here or if/when I sell the house?
Why wouldn't the plumber himself know more than I do about this?
If it has to be changed, the building company will fight this as they've recently fought back against a different concern and managed to reassure me about that one but I know it's because they understandably don't want to have to take apart recently completed works.
Any further advice please?