I found out on Christmas Eve at in-laws in USA that I am expecting baby no.2 (have a nearly 6 yo DS). Did the test in the afternoon and went + really quickly. However, although I had been feeling slightly nauseous I couldn't really believe it. Other than greatly expanded and tingly boobs and some nausea throughout the day, I don't feel pregnant in the same way I did with my DS.
I was also concerned about the dates as my LMP was quite light and not like a usual period for me. I got myself a dating scan at the local EPU yesterday (when according to my LMP I should be 8+2) and they dated me at 7+1. I saw a heartbeat and they said everything looked good, but I am still worrying. My neuchal-fold scan isn't due until I am 13+5, and as an older mother (I am 38), I am concerned about this. Also as I got such a strong positive I am worrying about HcG levels and that the scan showed over a week earlier than I 'should' be.
I've read a lot on forums and things about various different outcomes, mainly good a few not-so-good. I know I am probably worrying about nothing, and am almost 'finding' something to worry about. I was on anti-depressants last year (reduced after the summer as knew wanted to try for another child), but decided to stop taking them after found out was pregnant as the ones I was on are not advised for pregnancy or breastfeeding.
I cannot tell if my worrying about this (and horrible irritability that is rearing its head increasingly) is hormonal or because I am off the meds. I saw psychiatrist last week but felt mainly fine then. The scan result has (stupidly) set me back and I feel a bit like I just need some reassurance and someone to talk to. Have only told my sister that I am expecting as I don't really want to tell other people until after the 12-wk scan.
I'm considering having private Panorama scan at 10 weeks so I can tell people sooner and stop worrying about my neuchal fold scan being so late... I wasn't like this with my first pregnancy (well, I worried but not like this). Starting to feel like it is all I can think about!
If anyone has wise words please do share!
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titihood · 20/01/2017 12:40
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