We recently moved to a new area and my eldest dd is in year 9. She started this new school in October and made some new friends.
She says her friends parents are very strict and I don't think they are allowed social media. She had to buy her a Secret Santa present and was really unsure what to buy. She ended up with getting her some chocolate and some lip balm but she didn't even know if she'd be allowed the lip balm!
DD has said her friend is going to get her a Bible which seems a bit odd to me.
I have asked dd if she'd like to invite her friend around but dd said she'd rather not ask her.
I grew up in a very strict Evangelical/Pentecostal household. My dad wouldn't let my mum wear make up and we were all made to go to church on Sunday. All skirts had to be below knee and we didn't even have a TV. Books with swear words in (including school books) were burnt on our Rayburn so I do know about this way of life.
At university, I joined a couple of Pentcostal churches and didn't have a great experience tbh. I got very depressed and confused with it all and at the same time I was studying Theology.
I left the church and I don't attend one now although I have been to some really nice churches in between.
I'm not against her being friends with Christians at all but I am worried that she gets sucked into some kind of cult. I am waiting to see what kind of 'Bible' she brings back.
I also work in secondary school and just can't imagine any of my students giving out Bibles as SS presents.
Am i reading too much into this?
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New friend giving dd a Bible as a SS present
Chillyboots · 10/12/2023 08:58
Rocksonabeach · 10/12/2023 09:13
I’d contact the parents on the wats app and ask what they are doing for the ss and point out it must be neutral, and not offensive sending any religious things is a no.
Rocksonabeach · 10/12/2023 09:13
I’d contact the parents on the wats app and ask what they are doing for the ss and point out it must be neutral, and not offensive sending any religious things is a no.
Defaultsettings · 10/12/2023 09:22
I wonder if the friend isn’t allowed to do a secret Santa but is allowed to give a bible to a friend.
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Defaultsettings · 10/12/2023 09:22
I wonder if the friend isn’t allowed to do a secret Santa but is allowed to give a bible to a friend.
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