Sat here cuddling my 7mo baby just thinking about his sleep
sometimes he wakes for 1 bottle only, sometimes he wakes for settling (not as much now he’s in his own room?)
but I’ve never ‘sleep trained’ and I don’t know if I intend to. I feel like baby sleep is complex - tbh adult sleep is!
teething happens , changes to routine, bugs etc. I’m just trying to go with the flow. Maybe it’s easy for me as I do have a good support system so DS is an only child so far and when he had a week teething and was up every half hour, my mum babysat him the weekend and let me sleep.
But did anyone else not sleep train? Or am I a shitty mum for not so far!
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Anyone NOT sleep train?
Erella9 · 14/07/2022 23:39
Chanel05 · 15/07/2022 12:53
Nope.
She's nearly 2 and is up most nights but I put that down to the fact she's 2!!
OnlyFoolsnMothers · 15/07/2022 13:04
2 year olds don’t tend to wake routinely in the night sorry to tell you
Chanel05 · 15/07/2022 12:53
Nope.
She's nearly 2 and is up most nights but I put that down to the fact she's 2!!
OnceAgainWithFeeling · 15/07/2022 13:10
Very very few humans sleep solidly all night. Our biological history was bi-phasal sleeping - ie one sleeping session if 3-4 hours at night and another during the day. As a result most humans - including adults - wakes at least once at night. Sorry to tell you.
OnlyFoolsnMothers · 15/07/2022 13:04
2 year olds don’t tend to wake routinely in the night sorry to tell you
Chanel05 · 15/07/2022 12:53
Nope.
She's nearly 2 and is up most nights but I put that down to the fact she's 2!!
OnlyFoolsnMothers · 15/07/2022 13:47
Of course children stir like adults but most don’t require an adult to wake and tend to them.
OnceAgainWithFeeling · 15/07/2022 13:10
Very very few humans sleep solidly all night. Our biological history was bi-phasal sleeping - ie one sleeping session if 3-4 hours at night and another during the day. As a result most humans - including adults - wakes at least once at night. Sorry to tell you.
OnlyFoolsnMothers · 15/07/2022 13:04
2 year olds don’t tend to wake routinely in the night sorry to tell you
Chanel05 · 15/07/2022 12:53
Nope.
She's nearly 2 and is up most nights but I put that down to the fact she's 2!!
GreenManalishi · 15/07/2022 14:17
By "most" do you mean most of your children? The OP was about sleep training babies, not "tending" to children in the night. Anthropologically, humans are social sleepers, and there are many countries in the world where it would be unthinkable to put a baby in a seperate room, as it was here until the Victorian ethics kicked in, which is incredibly recently in perspective. (Which also involved the belief that babies didnt feel pain 😶)
OnlyFoolsnMothers · 15/07/2022 13:47
Of course children stir like adults but most don’t require an adult to wake and tend to them.
OnceAgainWithFeeling · 15/07/2022 13:10
Very very few humans sleep solidly all night. Our biological history was bi-phasal sleeping - ie one sleeping session if 3-4 hours at night and another during the day. As a result most humans - including adults - wakes at least once at night. Sorry to tell you.
OnlyFoolsnMothers · 15/07/2022 13:04
2 year olds don’t tend to wake routinely in the night sorry to tell you
Chanel05 · 15/07/2022 12:53
Nope.
She's nearly 2 and is up most nights but I put that down to the fact she's 2!!
OnlyFoolsnMothers · 15/07/2022 14:22
i know what the OP was asking- I don’t care if people do or don’t sleep train.
My comments addressed the comments about 2 year olds waking routinely in the night as normal- it isn’t, nor is a 2yr old a baby. Mothers in particular know how detrimental broken sleep is, so to encourage that as being the norm for children is imo irresponsible.
GreenManalishi · 15/07/2022 14:17
By "most" do you mean most of your children? The OP was about sleep training babies, not "tending" to children in the night. Anthropologically, humans are social sleepers, and there are many countries in the world where it would be unthinkable to put a baby in a seperate room, as it was here until the Victorian ethics kicked in, which is incredibly recently in perspective. (Which also involved the belief that babies didnt feel pain 😶)
OnlyFoolsnMothers · 15/07/2022 13:47
Of course children stir like adults but most don’t require an adult to wake and tend to them.
OnceAgainWithFeeling · 15/07/2022 13:10
Very very few humans sleep solidly all night. Our biological history was bi-phasal sleeping - ie one sleeping session if 3-4 hours at night and another during the day. As a result most humans - including adults - wakes at least once at night. Sorry to tell you.
OnlyFoolsnMothers · 15/07/2022 13:04
2 year olds don’t tend to wake routinely in the night sorry to tell you
Chanel05 · 15/07/2022 12:53
Nope.
She's nearly 2 and is up most nights but I put that down to the fact she's 2!!
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