I always leave the in laws feeling quite pissed off / stressed / upset. Basically, my DD doesn't like them and shows up terribly whenever we are in their company. We've been there all weekend, I think she can cope for so long but then it gets too much for her and she just wants to get away and have her own space. It comes out as tantrums though not being upset as such. She's 20 months.
Anyway MIL completely ignored her so on the last day and I heard her mutter under her breath that she needed some 'tough love'. What exactly am I meant to do!?
I do try to avoid confrontation with her when she's like that and try and keep the peace because it's embarrassing! But I follow through with things and don't let her get her way of she's kicking off.
I don't know what I'm meant to do, or how tough love (whatever that is) will make her any more comfortable with the in laws? Any ideas? I have a newborn as well and finding her behaviour and people's reaction to it quite difficult.
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So apparently my DD needs some tough love..
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buckyou · 27/03/2017 09:47
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