I am being told left right and centre that my son needs toughening up. He is 6 and yes he is not a typical boy he hates football and any type of sport he refuses to ride a bike, if he falls over he makes such a fuss he is quite a mummys boy and he loves his nursey rhymes, performing and cbeebies. He has nothing to do with minecraft, dr who or football like the boys in his class. He is very popular and although the boys will play with them he always chooses to play with the girls. He doesn't have much of a relationship with his dad or grandparents and is very attached to me basically I think one reason because I have always been the main carer and he has always been clingy so no one else has ever bothered with him. GP's and hubby constantly call him a wuss and I am getting it in the neck that I need to toughen him up!!! He quite often crys like a baby if things go wrong and does act and play more like he is 3 than 6. However he has no problems standing up for himself if anyone gets in his way or does something he doesn't like he wont just cry like he does usually he will tell them straight - don't push or stop being mean and they usually listen he is scared of no one. In other ways he is really boyish he hates anything pink and just loves trains and anything to do with them. My brother is gay and I think deep down his wussy attitude is worrying my parents and hubby and they think if I toughen him up maybe he will become more boyish!! I have tried to get him more into boyish things by having boys his age to play but he has nothing in common he knows nothing about minecraft and hates kicking a football around. Playdates with girls are fantastic they dress up and make up songs and dance routines. In September he is starting at a drama group as he loves performing. The teachers adore him at school and love him as he is a little bit different to the other boys but my husband worries that he will be bullied, but what can I do to change him and should I - I love him the way he is and his little quirks but my hubby says I am being selfish just because I love him that way no one else will. But it is down to me to instill this change because he cries a lot if things go wrong and he loves being with me hubby won't really be involved with him until he is toughened up. So who is the right here- feel I am being outnumbered?? Should I let him be himself or work really really hard at changing him and his ways??
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16/08/2014 10:39
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