Hi all, just had my first baby last Thursday, he is 6 days old today and I should be on top of the world, but I'm not. I never thought I'd find it easy, but I never thought I'd find it this hard either. I feel like my life is out of control, during the day I'm alright, but it gets to about 7 o clock after I've put him down to sleep and I actually start feeling sick with dread about what's going to come. When he cries, the sound feels like it's penetrating my soul, it makes me want to be I'll and cry myself. I know I'm not going to get any sleep, and I don't know when it's going to get better.
I knew beforehand it was going to be hard, but the reality of DH and I being up at the coalface 24/7 is so hard. I love my son so much, but sometimes I think such horrible things. The other night when he was going nuts at 3am, I just cried along with him and thought i should give myself into social services because I just make him miserable.
The next minute, all is well and we're all happy again. It's so up and down I can't keep up. I scare myself sometimes with the swing of my moods. I see other people with their kids in the park playing with them, or my friends with their babies and it's not like that for them. I'm just so desperate to be a decent mum. SO desperate. But I just can't do it. I can't imagine how I'll cope when DH goes back to work.
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I didn't know it'd be this hard :-(
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JazzieJeff · 20/10/2010 19:49
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