I found out at my 12 week scan in the 27th of December that I’d had a missed miscarriage, I had an ERPC on the 19th of January and had a complication in surgery which was stressful as I ended up in ICU . it was our first pregnancy after 8 years of trying and it was IVF so it was stressful to even get pregnant, we were so so happy, it was so longed for and wished for and prayed for, I’m still struggling to get over it, it’s all I think about and I want to try again but I’m scared of something going wrong again, I would of been in my 7th month of pregnancy now and I can’t stop thinking about it, I cry most days, I really feel like no one understands, this has been the hardest thing I’ve ever been through x
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Francescarae · 04/04/2024 21:24
@ReetPetity sorry you’ve been through it too, it’s so rubbish. I really do feel completely broken, I feel like a different person from pre miscarriage.
i will look into the miscarriage association that sounds like something that might be helpful, was it every week?
I’ve done 5 counselling sessions through our fertility clinic but I’m not sure how much good it’s done so far, I’m struggling to understand how talking to a counsellor helps but maybe being in a room with other women nodding would help me, it’s a lonely road x
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