Empty sack

[Aimeeloulou94]

11 weeks today just been for an emergency scan as I had brown discharge over the weekend scan showed an empty sack ectopic pregancy has been ruled out I have to go back next week for another scan heads all over the place dont know what to think or do just feel empty

[Aimeeloulou94]

It's awful may sound daft but i have gone and booked a private scan so I dont have to go through the wait just to be told I just want to have it confirmed and deal with how to heal with this just so sad I was due for my 12 week scan on the 26th April then fly to New York the next day then my 25th birthday on the Monday 29th April I dont know how am going to cope

[YessicaHaircut]

I’m so sorry. Same thing happened to me 2 weeks ago - 12 week dating scan showed an empty sac and I’d had pain and heavy bleeding in the week or so before.
It is so hard to deal with isn’t it; all the happiness and hope of the pregnancy just goes. It’s ok to be sad and it helps to let it all out. 2 weeks on and I’m starting to feel a bit better. Tell a few trusted people if you think it will help you, let them look after you, and make sure you look after yourself.

[Aimeeloulou94]

It's just the awful 9 day wait now to be told officially it has gone :( wish they had just told me today

[Confusedbeetle]

Sorry to hear this. You may have to accept this one is lost. Always sad and unfortunately not unusual