Hi,
Our children live 50/50 with my ex and I and have done so for the last few years. we are constantly having disagreements about who can and cant babysit her, drop them off and pick her up from school etc.
I work full time so need to have after school care. Up to date i have to keep the peace agreed that it would only be either him or me that would pick her up, in my week he has 1st refusal on the pick up and then if not she goes to a childminder. He does not want her step father who she has lived with for the last 6 years or his parents who she loves being with to babysit her or to drop off or pick up from school if he is not able to do so. He is also accusing me of using playdates as another means of childcare and wants to be asked permission as to whether she can go on a playdate after school or not.
I have been told that while she is in my care i am allowed to choose who she is with including childcare without having to ask his permission. he has called a meeting to discuss childcare arrangements and i would like to go in for armed with information on what my rights are. has anyone had an experience like this or know what my rights are?
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help...can my ex husband enforce who he thinks should be allowed to drop off and pick up our children from school?
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nat17 · 17/10/2013 11:20
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