at fiftyshadesofviper changing her/his onscreen name to fiftyshits.
I am going to start an OU course in October, which will hopefully give me more chance of getting my arse off MN more often getting paid work before DS3 turns 5yo. My aim is to be working at least 16 hrs a week by the time he is 3yrs9 months, and upping that to 24 hrs by the time he is 5yo. I don't want him in wrap around care more than 2 days a week until he has been at FT school for a term, and those figures add up. It has been my long-term plan since Ex-P left just over a year ago, but I wanted to enjoy my last baby while he was still a baby before taking on additional work through studying.
Most people I know that have been on long term benefits HAVE worked in the past, but are currently unemployed for the following reasons:
Caring for DC's with Autism that are often excluded from school, so the LP has to be at home with them (and I'm talking about from YR, inclusion is bollocks IMO).
Relationship breakdown resulting in resignation as Ex-partner was the childcare.
On short hours and unable to find other work to make the hours over TC level (so claiming JSA with a deduction for earnings).
Working between 10-15 hours a week, and as above, claiming JSA or IS and declaring their wages.
Studying as they left school with NO qualifications.
Caring for a paralysed partner, AND a DC with disabilities.
Caring for a partner with Cancer.
Resigned from job as DC has leukaemia and is a Lone Parent.
Caring for a DC with disabilities, but not claiming Carers' Allowance as she would then be unable to claim Free School Meals for her 3 DC, which would cost her MORE than the Carers' Allowance.
In temporary accommodation after being in a refuge after fleeing an extreme DV situation, and her case is still ongoing through Crown Court, and she is trying to deal with 4 DC who will NEVER be allowed to see their father again...
Anyone want any more examples of why some of the people I know are on benefits, and CLASSED as unemployed?