Hello - just looking for other experiences and to share a bit. My DD is home for Easter from her first year at uni and I'm finding it a bit hard to adjust. She seems to spend huge amounts of time in her room and doesn't seem particularly motivated to do very much. Its making me quite anxious (which I am prone to being anyway) and DH is telling me that i'm being daft. His reasoning is that she is fine, we're both working so not able to go on holiday or take DD anywhere, the weather is rubbish so what would we expect her to do? She has seen old school friends a couple of times, but not really very much. To be fair she has always been somebody who liked staying at home, but when she was at school she would often have friends here with her.
FWIW DD says uni is going well, she's enjoying her course and has friends there.
Is this normal for some kids? They come home for a couple of weeks and just hang around a bit aimlessly? DH thinks she is enjoying the chance just to be in the house in her own space and relax, and I know he is probably right, but I can't help worrying - aargh!
Anybody else had a similar experience? Please tell me I'm being ridiculous 😊
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DD home for the holidays from Uni - hard to adjust!
bigmarrowlegs · 09/04/2024 09:41
Rosesanddaisies1 · 09/04/2024 10:23
Surely she has uni work to do, but also why isn't she doing paid work or some volunteering? Take advantage to get some experience for her CV.
Soigneur · 09/04/2024 10:34
It's easter vacation . No employer or charity/voluntary org is going to go to the trouble of onboarding someone when they will be disappearing in a couple of weeks.
Rosesanddaisies1 · 09/04/2024 10:23
Surely she has uni work to do, but also why isn't she doing paid work or some volunteering? Take advantage to get some experience for her CV.
Rosesanddaisies1 · 09/04/2024 10:23
Surely she has uni work to do, but also why isn't she doing paid work or some volunteering? Take advantage to get some experience for her CV.
bigmarrowlegs · 09/04/2024 11:03
i think part of my anxiety is that this might be a preview of the summer hols. I know most students work / travel etc but again my DD has no plans and I’ve had to really force her into applying for a summer job. I have a horrible fear she will end up just hanging around for 3 months. I know it’s not the end of the world, but it’s not ideal and very different to me at that age!
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