My feed
Premium

Please
or
to access all these features

Guest posts

Guest post: "I had to use a foodbank - many families aren't 'just about managing'"

95 replies

MumsnetGuestPosts · 29/11/2016 11:43

Last week, I reached crisis point.

It feels like this has been looming since I was sanctioned in 2013. Following my sanction, I struggled with depression and agoraphobia brought on by anxiety. I started overeating and put on weight. It’s been a long road back to work and full health - I now work part-time, but my income is not always enough to pay my bills. Bit by bit, I have been sliding into debt.

Then a delayed benefit payment due to a computer error led to bank charges, which put me overdrawn. When it came to going shopping I had no money for food. With no opportunity to get help from family I turned to my housing association. I was given a voucher for the local foodbank, but it didn't open for a few days so I had to wait. That afternoon, my electric ran out so I sat there in the dark, feeling very alone, with no food to eat, and memories of my sanction filling my mind.

I was sanctioned for not looking for work. Fair punishment you might think, but the reason I wasn’t job hunting was because I was doing a two-week training course in a neighbouring town, leaving home at 7am and returning home at 7pm. I had been instructed not to jobsearch or sign on during that time, but later another adviser disagreed. I lost my £71 a week Jobseekers Allowance for four weeks.

I went without electricity, heating and food for most of the sanction. It climaxed on Christmas day. I spent it watching happy families walk past my window, while I sat silently, dealing with diarrhoea and waiting for it to get dark so I could try to sleep. It wasn’t until I received a Christmas card from a relative with £20 in it that I was able to eat and buy electric for the meter.

Less than two weeks later, I was told by the same Jobcentre adviser that I needed to learn a ‘work ethic’ - something clearly not demonstrated by my 20-year work history. She put me on mandatory work activity – workfare – which meant working full-time for free for four weeks in order to receive my benefits. Effectively, I was being punished for being sanctioned. I didn’t argue with her. Instead I went home, emptied the bathroom cabinet of the various pills I had stored away and tried to end my life. Less than a year before I had been earning £35k at a university in London.

In the run-up to the Autumn Statement, the papers were filled with news about so-called JAMs. These six million families who are 'just about managing' will no doubt be hoping that the government will fulfil its promise to make their lives better. But there is another group of families who have lost that hope. They are the ones who have been on the receiving end of harsh cuts to their income, through austere welfare cuts. Most of them also work but live in fear that the government will make their lives even harder.

I am not alone in receiving a sanction. Since the Conservatives were elected in 2010 until June this year around three million individuals have received eight million sanctions. Some may have been able to overturn the decision, but more wouldn't. The 3m figure doesn't include family members – mostly children – who are also affected by sanctions. For children living in sanctioned households, schools and foodbanks have become a lifeline, with teachers reportedly using money meant for education to buy food and clothing.

Some people whose benefit entitlement has been cut turn to social media for support. When Lauren got a letter from the council to inform her that housing benefit was being cut by £103.99 a week because of changes to the benefit cap, she went online to seek help. However, what she got was hate from people who are themselves 'just about managing'. Too many people now see single mums who rely on benefits as unworthy of respect and are instead treated as ‘breeders’ who are responsible for their own misery.

I was lucky to receive a more positive response when I turned to social media last week. After a period of feeling sorry for myself, I wrote a blog post using my phone and wi-fi from a neighbour and was able to get enough support to overcome my immediate problem. But there are many people out there who don't have this luxury. Over Christmas last year 23,901 jobseekers and a further 3031 sick or disabled people were sanctioned, with many of those potentially spending that time living without food and heating. Others will not have a home at all and will have been sleeping rough.

Many families will be concerned about facing the biggest squeeze to their pay in 70 years, which the Institute for Fiscal Studies recently predicted - but another group will be worried about not having an income at all. Last week during a debate on cuts to Employment and Support Allowance, MP Ian Mearns highlighted a constituent who had been forced to heat soup tins with a tea light following redundancy. Debbie Abrahams MP recently brought attention to one of her constituents who suffered a heart attack during his work capability assessment, and was sanctioned for not completing the assessment. Benefit sanctions and austerity have forced many households into undignified situations in order to feed themselves and their loved ones. These families are not just about managing - it is much worse than that.

OP posts:
Report
gotthearse · 30/11/2016 21:44

There are many scary things about universal credit, and the worst of it is yet to come for many. A six week wait for money, "advances" clawed back at punitive rates, caps on the housing element, no new tax credit claims for third children, the family element going for new claims, cuts to ESA... I could go on. Many families I work with are limping though the 6 week wait with welfare support payments for gas and electric and food bank for food. Often these are families bounced onto universal credit through a traumatic "change of circumstances" such as becoming too Ill to work, a relationship breakdown, an incident of domestic violence, the death of a partner or child. And then you have a six week wait. It's horrendous. Not to mention in the new service it's all managed on line, and if you miss one of your "to do's" in your journal as you can't get on line, you'll quite possibly find yourself the subject of a sanction. You can't speak to or see the case managers that make these decisions, there is no accountability, no apology when you are the subject of an "error" you will not feel cared for and valued, hardly the esteem building requisites of supporting people back into work. You can't aspire to do more and be more when every day is a battle to meet your most basic of needs, to keep you and yours alive and well (check out Maslow). I have worked with families for 20 years and can't remember a time like it. Sadly I don't think education, health and social care are seeing this coming, and it shortly will be on a significant scale. I keep asking myself why there is not more exposure in the media, and I can only conclude the sad truth is the majority don't give a shit. Until it happens to them.

Report
KateLennard · 30/11/2016 21:48

I am not in the same situation as you, but have a different battle with the government and funding that is destroying our lives. I describe it as the stories people don't read because they don't want to believe the world is actually like that. I just wanted to say how awful it is and my heart breaks for you.

Report
JaxyBear · 30/11/2016 22:17
Flowers
Report
Akire · 30/11/2016 22:24

If the police arrest you for a crime and put you in cells they can't take away heating light food for 4 weeks that would be illegal.

Yet miss an appointment or do what job centre say you need to do can result in immediate sanction and you are left with nothing.

Even if the sanction was deserved in this case surely it should be for 2 weeks you failed to look for work. Why the 4 weeks? It's a spiral to big black hole. The next time you sign on and the time after that you haven't eaten well if at all. Probable struggling walk everywhere. Living in freezing cold house. Can't put wifi on phone or do all job hunting things that costs money. Then more sanctions.

Report
JunosRevenge · 30/11/2016 22:26

I'll never understand why the poor are a target of so many people's ire and not the super rich who hoard wealth in the extreme, don't pay tax and shaft thousands (Phil Green, anyone?).

This...

Report
Twinklecomic · 30/11/2016 22:34

I am so sad and shocked by that post. I wish I had known where you were on that horrible Xmas you described- I'd have helped you- any one with the slightest degree of empathy would have. I wish poverty didn't come with stigma attached so that sane well meaning people could step in and help in a crisis. I would never see anyone short of food or electricity if I was aware of it. One thing for sure, social progress is not linear simply cyclical. So so sorry that this is happening to so many. I can never understand people in their ivory towers passing judgement.

Report
Lifeonthefarm · 30/11/2016 22:52

Your journey sounds horrid. What a position to be in. I do sympathise.

However sanctions for some maybe are a good idea - maybe there are better solutions, but blaming the system is not where their energies should be focused.
In my area there is NO excuse not to get a job. There just is NOT. People saying there are no jobs in our corner of Kent are frankly talking out of their arse. What they really mean is there are jobs they do not want - different thing.

I'm on my last batch of English workers trialling an unskilled position - if this lot don't work I will have a foreign worker brought in again (I always try to employ in the U.K. First).
When I advertise a job online I get the same people applying every time. Month after month, and sometimes year on year. I presume They are just ticking boxes!! They never respond to interview or trial invites.

The amount of people i interview who say they can't work more than X hours a week, can't work this, can't work then, won't do that. I Am going to start ending interviews mid way through and asking people not to waste my time just to get their dole money. It infuriates me.
If you have been out of work for a long time and turn down a job offer because it's anti social hours like weekends (when you have no legit reason not to work weekends I.e kids/childcare issues, commitments etc) then you are just a sponger who shouldn't be claiming anything from the state and defiantly should not blame the system or hide behind excuses like the state of the jobs market. Harsh but true.

I regularly see applicants that have been unemployed for more than 3 months and I always give them a try as I like to believe in people. But when they turn up (if they do) to interview it's always very
Clear that they are just bloody well lazy, picky, or think they're worth more than they are, hence no job! Every. Single. Time.

I appreciate across the country employment opportunities vary. I can only speak of my first hand experience.

What is frustrating is the system is therefore failing everyone.
It's not properly addressing and helping those who WANT to get on (I.e OP on the course etc) and it's making allowances for the scourge of society who won't work.

Frustrating for all.

Report
avamiah · 30/11/2016 23:04

Akire,
I agree with you, the whole "Sanctions"system or whatever it is called is outrageous and only putting people into a vulnerable situation.
There is a mum at my daughters school and she was sent for a interview to a local cafe to be a waitress.
Anyway to cut a long story short, of course they took her on and she works 5 days a week, mornings to lunch,but the place is disgusting and dirty and I said to her why don't you leave and tell the Job Centre it's a disgusting place and it should be reported.
She said she had already told them it was filthy and they said that's not a good enough reason to leave and if she does she will be sanctioned and not be able to make a re claim for 8 weeks.
She has 3 children and is a single mum.

Report
myoriginal3 · 30/11/2016 23:05

The scourge of society. Now THERE is something to discuss.

Report
KavvYourselfAMerryLittleXmas · 30/11/2016 23:56

People in these situations are scared and vulnerable and they don't need to be squeezed any tighter. No one is like this by choice or by design. I am very sad to hear such terrible stories in modern day Britain.

Report
JurassicFart · 01/12/2016 00:44

Thank you for your post, OP. Very thought provoking.
I'll never understand why the poor are a target of so many people's ire and not the super rich who hoard wealth in the extreme, don't pay tax and shaft thousands

A Murdoch - dominated press that demonises the poor to distract us from the real issue of the companies and wealthy individuals who pay very little tax here.

Report
expatinscotland · 01/12/2016 08:17

Oh, yes, 'the scourge of society' on £71/week. Right up there with the Ian Bradleys of this world Hmm.

Report
hmcAsWas · 01/12/2016 08:30

On donations to foodbanks (from Trussell Trust facebook page):

"The Trussell Trust has issued a list of essential non-food items they desperately need, and it reads as follows:
•Toiletries - deodorant, toilet paper, shower gel, shaving gel, shampoo, soap, toothbrushes, tooth paste, hand wipes
•Household items – laundry liquid detergent, laundry powder, washing up liquid
•Feminine products – sanitary towels and tampons
•Baby supplies – nappies, baby wipes and baby food – but not formula milk due to UNICEF regulations"

Report
Brokenbiscuit · 01/12/2016 08:49

I'm so sorry that you've had to go through all this, OP. And for the many other people in similar positions.Flowersto all who are struggling.

I had already planned to take a donation of food and toiletries to my local food bank next week. There are many charities around the country that are doing a fantastic job of helping families in difficult circumstances, but we shouldn't have to rely on charities to fill the gap in a supposedly civilised country. It's so very wrong.

Report
prettybird · 01/12/2016 11:34

Seems an appropriate thread on which to post this illustration of relative priorities Hmm

This predates the current government, but somehow I do to expect the proportions to have changed significantly despite lip service being paid to going after the major tax avoiders SadAngry

Guest post: "I had to use a foodbank - many families aren't 'just about managing'"
Report
PetraDelphiki · 01/12/2016 11:45

Just in case there are any Ocado users reading this you can donate to food banks via your order and Ocado will double the value...they work with the food banks to deliver what is needed. Search for voucher and you'll find it.

Report
Moodykat · 01/12/2016 11:54

Very powerful - and a little bit heartbreaking.

Report
Ervina · 01/12/2016 12:31

What is a good etiquette when you are returning a shirt your kid borrowed from another kid? Do you wash it first and then return it OR you just simply return it dirty???!!

Report
Peregrane · 01/12/2016 13:25

People should be posting this to their MPs up and down the country. I wonder if we could call for an independent review of the sanctions regime (as applied by the DWP). This is not the first time I have been explosed to stories like this, and I know many who struggle, but I am shaken every time. This is scandalous in an advanced Western liberal democracy.

Report
freespirit777 · 01/12/2016 15:00

This is a very worrying trend and unfortunately it is not just happening in this country but all over the world. It has been planed all along by the NWO to create a hunger game society. If we let it happen we will all be effected by this.
Humanity needs to wake up, unite and stand up together. Wonder what would happen if the people of the world would all strike together?
I sincerely wish you a prosperous year 2017

Report
OFFFS · 01/12/2016 16:33

Petra - that is massively helpful about Ocado. Will check that out, thank you.

Report
SittingAround1 · 01/12/2016 20:22

Thank you for writing this. A member of my family is on disability benefits. They would love to work but can't. I can confirm the system is inhumane. They would be on the streets or in hospital without support from family ( so I dread to think how those without family support cope).

Report

Don’t want to miss threads like this?

Weekly

Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!

Log in to update your newsletter preferences.

You've subscribed!

imajsaclaimant · 01/12/2016 20:46

Thanks for the positive comments to my blogpost. It is heartening to see people talk about giving to food banks as a response to what I've shared.

Report
Tryingtosaveup · 01/12/2016 21:05

There are plenty of jobs where I live too, and I am not in the South East. Lots of adverts for staff in shop windows and cafe windows. But people don't want the work or only want so many hours so it doesn't affect their benefit. Or they don't want that kind of work.
The blog poster seems to have been out of work since 2013 and seems to want to make a living writing a blog,
I don't believe half of it.

Report
Cherryskypie · 01/12/2016 21:23

Apart from the conspiracy theorists and the wilfully ignorant people seem to get it.

Report
Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.