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Anyone want to join me on a diet overhaul?

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Skala123 · 07/04/2016 17:59

I've decided it's time to address my diet - but not by going on a 'diet'.
I am a healthy weight, exercise loads, in pretty good shape, have a metabolic age ten years younger than I am etc so weight is NOT a factor.

However I eat way too much crap. I have a seriously sweet tooth and aside from a healthy breakfast and occasionally healthy lunch I eat pretty badly. I snack all the time and everything is sugar based pretty much. I know it's hampering my exercise and I could be in much better all round condition if I changed my habits.
However I've come to the conclusion that unless i am somehow accountable for what I eat each day I will never break these habits. So I wondered if there's anyone here in the same boat that fancies joining me in shaming themselves each day but without the calorie count or weigh in?

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Skala123 · 11/04/2016 06:37

Title of my thread 'anyone want to join me in a diet overhaul' - did you miss that?!

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PollyPerky · 11/04/2016 09:10

For someone who asked for help, you're being a bit defensive and dare I say, a bit unpleasant to someone offering ideas.

I joined your -precious thread because I wanted to share what had worked for me. I guess it was a bit too blunt for you and you wanted some handholding, rather than me saying just stop buying the stuff you're eating too much of?

There is no magic answer to your eating crap. Will power, not buying it and getting to understand why you continue eat it might help if you are willing to accept ideas rather than just sympathy.

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daydreamnation · 11/04/2016 09:25

Another one here. Generally described as 'skinny' so not a weight issue but I too have a terrible sweet tooth Sad
My usual daily diet is something like this... Breakfast - 3 slices of toast with way too much butter and marmite and however much I resist I always end up having tea and about 4 biscuits as a sort of 'breakfast pudding' Blush
Mid morning - more biscuits or chocolate and a banana Lunch - mostly not bad but not great, cheese or hummus and oatcakes, or quorn ham sandwich and always crisps and a yoghurt. Mid afternoon - generally more chocolate or cake. I think I'll leave it there, you get the picture. I also do no exercise as such but do have a physical job and am always on the go.
I really want to change but have no willpower, never have done Sad

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Skala123 · 11/04/2016 10:33

Hi daydream, welcome to snackers anonymous!
I'm determined to get better! No way I will cut out all sugar, and I don't really want to try and I have very few vices and who wants to be perfect right?! Going well so far today - just had an apple to replace the mid morning sweet stuff fix....

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WellThankYouAJPTaylor · 11/04/2016 11:29

I cut waaaaaay back on sugar for about 8 weeks last summer and felt AMAZING. Just to encourage you Grin

I don't snack on chocolate etc during the day, but I was drinking far too much sweet tea and coffee. I dumped them completely and switched to green tea. That was the biggest change for me.

No biscuits or cake. I would have a few squares of dark chocolate in the evening, if and only if I really wanted them.

Honestly, the results were brilliant. My skin was glowy and firm. I slept like a log and woke up refreshed. I lost a few pounds (wasn't really overweight but had a few spare). My head felt so clear.

And then I went on holiday and fell off the wagon. Have yet to haul myself back on. But I will! I have ditched my morning coffee for the last week and had matcha instead. Green tea in the day instead of sweet tea. I still have a coffee after dinner but that's it. Small steps...

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CardiffUniversityNetballTeam · 11/04/2016 11:33

Morning!
I did okay yesterday I was at work and I was organised enough to bring my own lunch in. It also helped that no one had left any sweets lying around in the break room!
I fell off the wagon a touch in the evening when i went round to DPs house. I had two glasses of wine and a cinnamon bagel with jam in it while we were watching antiques roadshow

Good luck everyone staying snack free today! I've had porridge and a banana this morning and now I'm off to work.

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Potterwolfie · 11/04/2016 18:32

Two chocolate hobnobs whilst watching Antiques Road Show here Cardiff! Rock and indeed roll Grin.

I get what polly means, but it's one thing knowing I should just cut out the biscuits etc, and an entirely different thing actually doing it.

I don't have sugar in drinks and never drink fizzy stuff, but I LOVE to bake for my DCs and their friends, and I love to eat it too. It's just a thing like with skala's neighbour...it's a way of showing live and appreciation.

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PollyPerky · 11/04/2016 19:49

It might be a way of showing love , but long term we are doing no one any favours by providing sweet foods. I'm all for things in moderation - follow the 80-20 or 90-10 rule myself so not totally deprived, but sugar is an addiction and the only way to stop is to not buy it, bake it and eat it. maybe visualise the furring up of the arteries and long term health problems by eating too much sugar.

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Potterwolfie · 11/04/2016 20:29

The odd piece of cake or biscuit can happily sit within an 80-20 balanced, healthy diet.

I'd rather eat some nice, unprocessed, homemade things (healthy, 'unhealthy', whatever), then enjoy exercising, walking in the sunshine and delight in the feeling of being alive than picturing my arteries furring up Grin.

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Skala123 · 11/04/2016 20:48

Ha ha well said potter. I've recently had a top to toe health MOT and my visceral fat (the stuff around your organs) is about as low as it can be so as I said in my original post this is not really about health or weight, just about trying to limit the treats to a reasonable amount (that's reasonable to me not you Polly) and also replacing them with stuff that will help me more in my training and exercise.
Today has been a good day - just one biscuit! Have just made myself some healthy flapjacks and they are actually nice despite no butter or sugar in them whatsoever! Delicious alongside my glass of wine...

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CardiffUniversityNetballTeam · 11/04/2016 21:47

Good work with the flapjacks Scala!

I love to bake as well. Although my oven has packed up so until I get round to buying a new one I don't need to worry about baked goods!

I had a Pret on my break at work today which included a bag of crisps and a little cake. Oops.

But now I'm home from work and I need to make sure I eat a proper meal, even though it's later, rather than just raiding the fridge and cupboards for snacky stuff.

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Skala123 · 11/04/2016 22:18

That's often my problem too Cardiff - if DH is away then I never fancy cooking but end up having wine and junk for dinner. Running ten miles tomorrow lunchtime and didn't get round to dinner tonight ( too many flapjacks!) so will have to eat properly in the morning

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PollyPerky · 12/04/2016 08:31

The odd piece of cake or biscuit can happily sit within an 80-20 balanced, healthy diet.

I'm so pleased Potter that you've understood the point I was making Grin- that's exactly what 80-20 means.

Sounds like we are singing from the same hymn book.

Skala you must be very wealthy or very fortunate through your employment to be able to fund a private MRI scan of your internal organs. Not everyone has that option. Most people have to make judgements based on family medical history and latest science.

The point I was making is that baking sugar-laden goodies for children or friends as an 'act of love' is the equivalent to handing over a cigarette. Sugar is the new tobacco. It's as simple and as deadly as that.

Yes, we all have and need treats as you said Potter and home made can be better, but the real issue is we continue to use sugar and fatty foods to make us feel better instead of tackling the underlying emotional need for comfort food- for ourselves or the people we feed them to.

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PollyPerky · 12/04/2016 10:24

BTW I'd love to have that recipe for flapjacks with no butter or sugar.
How are you getting the oats to stick together?

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Skala123 · 12/04/2016 11:45

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PollyPerky · 12/04/2016 14:11

Sorry about your friend but your reaction to me is extremely rude and totally unnecessary.

There are many people more expert than me, saying this. I suggest you have a read of what is said here and maybe re-think your response.

Telegraph health news

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FauxFox · 12/04/2016 15:02

I have found my people!
Plenty of exercise but eat too many treats? Check!
Wine is essential for life? Check!

I'm fine weight wise, don't really want to lose more than a couple of pounds and cba with weighing/calories etc.

My vices are wine (obviously) raiding the kids snack box and eating a load of random crap instead of real breakfast and lunch. I usually eat a proper healthy dinner in the evening with DH but during the day I am terrible!

I started being 'good' today after yesterday which involved incidents with two mini milky bars, two oat and raisin cookies, quarter of a camembert and a large bag of unsalted nuts Blush

Today I am a paragon of snack-free virtue Halo (so far!)

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PollyPerky · 12/04/2016 15:20

Skala I am not going to engage with you further except to say if you post on a public forum you have to accept all comers to your thread, whether you like what they say or not. It's a shame you are spoiling your own thread by being abusive to me. I am sorry about your friend but I suspect I am a lot older than you and have lost- and am currently losing- good friends to cancer none of whom have risked their lives by smoking. You don't have a monopoly on that.

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Potterwolfie · 12/04/2016 16:24

fauxfox love your incidents involving mini milky bars Grin.

Started well with porridge this a.m. then descended into a cupcake from well-meaning friend whose DS I had over to play. Avocado and roasted chick for lunch and a salad for dinner...ooh need to drink water.

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Skala123 · 12/04/2016 18:45

Hello fauxfox! We do sound like your people! Today I have been utterly angelic! Smoothie and half a bagel for breakfast, handful of almonds and a banana for a boost before an 11 mile run, homemade sin free flapjack and an apple plus glass of milk post run. And that's it!! Still time to go off the rails but darn pleased with myself. Glass of wine tonight. Smile

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FauxFox · 12/04/2016 22:05

I am snack-free today Grin did an 8k run and level 3 shred DVD thing and have had no naughty snacks at all! Just having a camomile tea before bed (I even drank quite a bit of actual water today instead of just coffee and wine - wonders will never cease!) Halo

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FauxFox · 12/04/2016 22:07

You must share your wonderous flapjack recipe too skala - most 'healthy' cake tastes awful imo Confused

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FauxFox · 13/04/2016 09:57

Good grief - not even 10am and I have the raging munchies...i'm not hungry, I have loads of work to do and am procrastinating and delaying by thinking about eating stuff Hmm

I am going to get on with it and maybe have some yoghurt with honey and nuts once i've ticked a few things off my 'to do' list

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Skala123 · 13/04/2016 11:29

Stay strong Fauxfox! I'm doing ok so far but that's because I've been out of the house so no access to snacks! One bite of DS croissant but that's all since sugar free muesli at 7.30am.
Will share wondrous flapjack recipe later!

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