Hi Mof3 - glad you saw your therapist - can you see her while you are waiting for the meds to kickin. I have just googled sertraline and some of the side effects are exactly as you mention: dry mouth, agitation, sleeplessness, but does say that if you are really troubled by side effects, to return to the GP. It does say that you should feel the benefit within 2 weeks but can take up to 4 weeks to feel the full effect.
I am sure you are right about being exhausted, as you have such a lot going on and the sleeplessness (which is a symptom of depression) is going to make everything worse. Re the CPN - the first line treatment for depression is a prescription from the GP (has she given you another appt btw - she should have done, to check how things are going) and if you are getting much worse while waiting for the meds to kick in, they can refer you to the local CMHTeam, and a CPN can be allocated, so probably that's why it hasn't been mentioned by the GP. Mine always came to see me at home, but different LAs have different arrangements and I'm sure there is going to be more pressure on MH services in London. However it is still an option to contact the GP and ask if a CPN can be allocated to you as you are really struggling. On the other hand, you may feel you can get through it - but don't stop taking the meds. You could try Nitol I should think, or Kalms as you mention, but once the edge has been taken off the depression, your sleep should improve.
I think you did amazingly well to get yourself such a good job in TV after experiencing all the difficulties in your early years - you must have a reserve tank of strength I reckon, though I suspect that is now running dry. I can understand why you can't give yourself permission to be ill, given the messages you were given as a child about being attention seeking etc., but that was the fault of your parents and you know that you did not get the love and care you deserved as a child, and so you could "get rid" of those unhelpful messages, and try to be kinder to yourself, and accept that you are ill and not attention seeking - not sure if I have said i was a social worker and manager for 25 years for a LA and we always thought of attention seeking as attention needing* and we saw the effects of parents who neglecte and abused their children of course.
I think you must sit that H down and tell him. You must pluck up your courage and tell him. I am sure you have good reason to not want to tell him as he won't understand or empathise, but nonetheless you have to tell him and say you need support otherwise you are not sure that you can carry on with meeting the deadlines - that might shake him up a bit, because I have a sense that you are the driver in this business, and without you, he would be lost. Just a guess. Stick with the meds but if things get unbearable ask the GP if she can refer you for more support.
I was touched by your generosity of spirit in saying that I should be able to enjoy a slower pace of life and the grandchildren, but I still think you young mums have a very bad deal, with this awful illness.
Hi Grockle - I have just read your OP and notice that you mention you have other health problems with you and your little boy, as well as your depression. Do you want to say anymore about this, sorry if that sounds intrusive. How are things for you at the minute - you say Sertraline didn't suit you but found one that did - are you still taking it. I note that you are awaiting a psychiatric appt and that's how you started the thread. Is that for an assessment or review of meds. The GP obviously thought you needed to see a psych otherwise he/she wouldn't have referred you. YOu sound like a very loving mum to your little boy and there will be brighter times ahead for all of us I think. Mind the torment of depression has to be experience before it can be understood.
I am on day 5 of crapness and the migraine is caused by the crying, which sometimes I am unable to control. I usually get better in the evening and by this time at night (bedtime) I usually feel more or less ok. Just go to bed dreading what the next day will bring. This last blip has hit me hard because it is the first one this year and I really thought I was through it all (after 2.5 years) of being ill, initially with a physical illness and then the onset on the depression.
Hope you both get a better night and remember "This too will pass" (sorry if that sounds trite, but it's what we have to believe.
All for now...........Love NNx