I would appreciate your thoughts and advice, please. I am concerned for a friend of mine and do not know the best way to help her.
I have only known her a year and she has always been the same way, so to some extent I always thought this is just the way she is.
She is very very anxious and almost manic in herself. She will talk to me about an issue or problem and just when I think I'm giving her a reasonable answer or help, she comes up with a whole load more problems. Now, I have always tried to be sympathetic, but it seems every other month there is a new drama or problem. And there is always a reason why what you're suggesting isn't going to work.
She seeks advice from everyone she knows, but then ends up with lots of opinions and cannot make a decision. Her parents (she is mid-20s, living alone) have actually taken her to the GP as they were concerned that she was changing her mind all the time. Over summer she had to decide what to do come Sept and she has swung violently from one extreme to the other. Blood tests were done and she is awaiting results (not sure what blood tests will show?).
It is impossible to really convey what someone is like, isn't it? I get the impression her head is all over the place and she cannot enjoy anything or commit to anything or live at all. Whether this is due to worry or her nature, or what, I don't know. She seems so agitated and on edge all the time.
Does this sound like a mental health issue, or am I reading too much into it?
And if so, how does one even begin to suggest she seeks help?
One more thing to add (sorry this is so long!) - we met when she became a Christian and joined my church. She has had lots of councilling and met with all sorts of people. I almost feel that she wants a spiritual answer, when actually it is her mental health. Although I do believe that God can help people, I also think that we must be honest about where we're at.
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Mental health
Anxiety amd advice for a friend
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LucyRaggyDoll · 13/09/2011 17:20
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