as long as there are enough idiots to think private means better whatever the school then places like Stover will survive
Oh I see so people like me are idiots? But those like xenia who use schools like that I teach in are I suppose much better? They pay for a higher standard somehow? Yet the school where I work is higher in all rankings than Eton but I bet looking through the list you might even think "never heard of them"
However despite having the opportunity I am not sending my own DS to my top ranking school. I might send him there for senior years if I am still in the UK but I have a school earmarked in Canada ( private again) for that. I have chosen a small, nice prep (I think anyway) which is nearer to home and will give my DS what I think he needs. It doesnt do sporting or social and it doesnt steam roller kids into activities. I dont mind paying. I will be getting what I want for my money. I am not a supporterof much of what state school education is about. I will pay just to get away from the NC to be honest.
90% + of the private schools in this country arent worth the fees,people would be better topping up the state system and getting a better pension or buying a house for their dc,but as long as silly little snobs think private automatically means better then they will survive,these schools offer nothing be it academic,sporting or social
I am afraid I cannot agree. I do not think that "topping up" will be cheaper. Neither do I think it can do the job even a middle ranking independent can do.
I do not think that putting my DS's education on the line in some half hearted state comp where it is not "cool" to be able or to show ability is a good idea. I dont think its a good idea to put him in a school which has no work ethos, has drug raids to " frighten" the pupils ( really? I dont buy that), or any one of a million other causes. Diversity, mixing with others, cheap skateness or anything else.
I want my DS educated. I want him to speak nicely, meet the right people and get a good start.
I do think there is some measure of truth in the phrase "Private education or no education" especially now. It may not have been so much a case when I was a DC ( back in the 1960's but even then it was better in private). I have seen it, taught in it, experienced it in state education. I wil not sacrifice my DS on the your alter of giving him to the state because it will be less snobbish.
I like snobbish. Thanks.