Hi Everyone,
I'm looking for advice on what I should be asking for/fighting for with finances following separation.
My ex and I only have the asset of the house and he will buy me out using money borrowed from a family member. He will therefore have no mortgage on a 3 bed townhouse moving forward and be paying a minimal amount to his family member each month.
I have moved out into a small 2bed bungalow with a monthly rent of £1200. I work part time as we have two young children (2 and 5) and am claiming universal credit to help with this. My UC covers money for both children, and my ex says this means he shouldn't be paying me any maintenance towards the children. We have a 60/40 split at the moment, is this fair? I have always been the children's primary caregiver and he is trying to penalise me for paying more into the house while I was on maternity leave.
Also, once I accept any offer, my UC will stop and ill be eating into the money to cover monthly expenses while he has disposable income from having no mortgage.
We have the court hearing later in the year and I don't know what to ask for. He's offering me a buy out amount based on the lowest valuation of the house, subtracting cost of sale and early repayment fee. Shouldn't he buy me out on the highest valuation? Or at least a half way point?
Would the court take anything else into consideration? Eg. He earns more than me, will have less outgoings moving forward. I am in quite a lot of debt from having to move out without any furniture or white goods.
We both have pensions, but there is not a big difference between them.
No other assets.
What should I do? Should I accept his low offer and just get it over with? Or should I fight? Anyone have experience with this?
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What should I be fighting for?
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Summerkoala · 20/03/2024 07:14
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