Well I have started my Christmas shopping already as I find it will be easy to spread the cost.
I don't have much in but what I do have I think they shall go down well. Yesterday I was out shopping with my sister my nephew and my daughter. I had reserved two toys and I collected them yesterday. They are exactly the same toy one each for my daughter and the other for my nephew.
The toy in question was a Dinosaur which I managed to bag for about 8.00 instead of its original 40.00 which i was quite pleased with. The dinosaur is enormous and I think they will get many hours of enjoyment out of it.
My sister turns round to me and said are you giving DN that for his Xmas of Bday and I said Christmas so they can both get them at the same time.
So then my sister turns around and said is that it? I feel fairly upset and offended because she already knows DN will receive less off me than what my DD receives off my sister because my sister has a very large income and isnt a single parent compared to me and I'm a single parent and a small income.
It seems quite rude that she said this we weren't raised to be materialistic and she is expecting to get lots of things for xmas because she has already bought and wrapped her xmas things and it sounds like shes bought a lot.
But tbh she knows that I have less money and she shouldn't be expecting me to reciprocate with many gifts. I have only just started xmas shopping and I will be buying a lot less than what she has. But what I manage to buy I will be hoping they are nice and thoughtful gifts.
Shes been going on as-if its a competition but its getting me disheartened all I want my xmas to be about is for my daughter to have a wonderful day filled with wonderful food , family time and snuggling beside the fire with treats and xmas films. It shouldn't be about the gifts.
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Quite upset, shouldn't people be a little more compassionate
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Northerngal29 · 07/06/2014 16:52
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