Appoligies for any rambling.
DH has a DD from previous relationship, every week we pay maintainance to dsd's mum. Since crimbo she's been asking for extra money every week saying it's for one thing or another for dsd. DH and I know this is total crap.
The first week his ex asked for more we told her we can only just afford what we currently give her (we've got two kids together and our own bills to pay) we went to pick dsd up and they've just bought a puppy. The next week she wanted more yet she and her partner took dsd and their kids to a play area and for dinner out. Then they got sky but she couldn't send dsd on a school trip and expected me and DH to pay.
AIBU or is she just taking the piss? DH and I very rarely go out every few months if we're lucky coz we can't afford it and can't take dsd, dd and ds out very often either. I know for a factthat dsd'd mum and her partner - neither of whom work - go out every weekend and take their kids and dsd out every other week.
Yet she tries to guilt trip DH saying she needs more for dsd knowing full well that we rarely have money left when bills have been paid and food bought.She makes me so
Why should DH and I give her extra money, on the rare occations we have it, so she can still go out and take her kids out, instead of using our extra money to take our kids (including dsd) out?
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AIBU?
to be pissed off with DH's ex gilfriend
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duvetqueen · 09/03/2010 13:39
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