We've been living in a lovely community Cresent of flats where everyone knows everyone, families, couples and elderly. Our children are good natured, caring and kind. They play outside together and all neighbours are used to them and love seeing their chalk drawings, especially through lockdown. We have since had a new neighbour. On first meeting he revved his engine and sped up going very close to my son who was chalk drawing, he always moves out of the way but had very little time. My son was a little stunned. The neighbour then walked towards him glaring at him like he was a juvenile delinquent. I looked at him with raised eyebrows and the neighbour started ranting at me that the chalks are disgusting and he's sick of seeing them when he comes home and we should not be playing outside and to go to the park etc etc. He was very aggressive. I suggested he need to be more tolerant as we are a diverse community with families and those without children have always enjoyed their drawings. He said we have no respect and he will be complaining about us etc etc. My son is autistic and very gentle and kind but is now to scared to go outside incase he sees us. I feel the neighbours aggression and driving was far more disgusting than children chalk drawing. My son is known for his amazing drawings and it's been encouraged as part of his play therapy, so it was very confusing that someone would refer to art as disgusting. The irony also is, that my son has a fantastic engineering brain and it turns out the complaining neighbour is an ecologist and environmental engineer promoting a greener future! Yet, he's revving his engines and intimidating young children! I just can't get over it!
AIBU?
Intolerant neighbour disgusted by chalk drawings.
Milsey13 · 17/06/2022 13:00
Am I being unreasonable?
700 votes. Final results.
POLLgirlmom21 · 17/06/2022 15:22
Honestly I don’t love the chalk drawing thing. It can make a street look really messy. It’s just middle class graffiti.
It takes 20 secs and a warm bucket of water or a bit of rain to get rid of
Gr33ngr33ngr4ss · 17/06/2022 15:38
I suspect nobody really "loves" the chalking. They're ambivalent at best but if you ask them then most people are going to be kind.
Whether you're in the road or not, driving AT a child is pretty shit.
If you are IN the road, you shouldn't be and if you need to be revved at to notice a car then you REALLY need to not be allowed to do it at all because you're going to get badly hurt.
I don't mind chalking particularly but if it's every day and all over a large area, I can see why some people think it looks messy.
catfunk · 17/06/2022 15:53
Half of your post sounds very precious and irrelevant.
Can't your son chalk in your back garden or closer to your house where it doesn't affect the neighbours? I don't particularly like the look of it either tbh.
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