DHs dad asked him out of the blue if he wanted to got on holiday there and he would pay. He also said he would pay for DS (3yrs) now my problems are ...
A - we are a family of 4 - Dont you think its a bit off for FIL to offer to pay for 2?
B - Im TERRIFIED of planes and I wouldnt go anyways, but am not at a point with my fear in which I could allow DS to go on a plane (Iam planning to sort my fear out so we can go away when the kids are older) FIL knows I am petrified of planes and that i would be horrified at the thought of any of my family being on one.
C- DH said FIL will pay for 2 so we can go together If I dont want DS to go - yes very nice but who the hell will look after the kids
Its just not practial. theres no way we could find someone to have the kids for a week, and Im not ready to leave them for a week anyway.
So now DH says well if all the above is so then he will go alone.
But I dont want him to, I dont want him to go off with his dad (who is shall we say immature) I dont want to be alone in the house for a week, I dont want to deal with the kids alone for a week,
We have a family holiday in June and I cant see why he just cant be happy with that,
Hes a married man now with 2 toddlers, --- am I right in thinking jetting off on a boys holiday just isnt something that he can do?
Im not bitter, honest, lol. I wouldnt want to go myself but i dont want him to go either
I hate my stupid fear I know its irrational but its how I am
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(I think I may be) to NOT want DH to go to Lanzarote?
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MrsKittylette · 08/01/2008 00:17
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