To ask about BRAS

[lockdown67]

So basically, I never really wear a bra. I hate the way they feel and find them really uncomfortable. Last time I was measured I was 36DD but that was a few years ago so I need to get the tape measure out.

So, ladies, please help me out. BEST website to buy comfortable, uplifting, supportive bras? For women with relatively big bust. I'm only 23 and they're sagging! 😂😂😂

[AllTheCakes]

I would wait until Bravissimo are open and head there. They are brilliant and will measure you properly and find bras to suit your size, shape and ensure you’re comfortable. If you can’t wait then measure using Boob or Bust.

[Rach000]

I have just ordered a bra from m and s. Seem to have some nice more comfy ones and not too expensive. I didnt want to spend a lot on one without trying it on first. I have really needed some new decent bras for ages, had 2 kids and breastfed so wanted to wait till I have finished. Would have been better to try them but will see how it is when it arrives.
I have bought bras from asda and sainsbury's in the past years as wanted cheap bras when pregnant or breastfeeding but they are not comfy.

[thegcatsmother]

I've been wearing Prima Donna Deauville for years now. Underwired, but I don't feel as though I have a bra on. Pricey, but they last.

[IwillrunIwillfly]

Another vote here for using the boob or bust method for finding out your size. Most women are wearing too big a band and too small a cup. If you're on facebook join the group on there. Lots of good advice and other people going through the same trying to get a good bra and lots of tips on how to get a bra that fits properly.

[Kaj29]

I totally get it. I hate bras. I do wear them when I go out but if I know I’m going to be in all day it stays off 🤣 in the winter I’ve been known not to wear one. I’m only a b cup though. So you can’t even tell. I’m not wearing one right now 🤣

My favourite bra and the only one I will wear now is from M&S. Its a plunge type bra and it’s called super soft or something. The material is so soft and non scratchy (I hate lace bras) as well as being supportive, great quality And slightly padded.

[charlJ]

*lifting weights, sorry my phone hates the app

[charlJ]

I love Boux Avenue for my bras, they are super comfortable for me and do a really good job at supporting me 34 E. I’ve always worn bras but have had 5 pregnancies and went on to breast feed them. I’ve found lifts my weights really help to firm up and lift the chest area as well as a decent supporting bra, so even after 5 breast feed babies and at the age of 42 I’ve still got firm breasts. Swimming is also good for toning the area too imo

[Levrierssontmeilleurs]

Try Royce-lingerie wire free bras. They’re really comfortable

[Quackersandcheese3]

Have a look at Molke .

[SomewhereInbetween1]

Sorry OP, I'm th opposite! 30HH and a few months ago at 28 I officially have up on proper bras, I just cannot deal with the pain, the wires and the fact that they always make my boobs look bigger which I hate. I now live in a collection of stretchy crop tops, bralettes, sports bras and any tops I can get away with wearing morning underneaths.

[Sunshineandflipflops]

I've tried the bralettes too and they just don't give me enough support. The one I have also rolls up where the band is and is so uncomfortable.

[midgebabe]

If conventional bra is uncomfortable ( assuming you have done proper measurements ) , try molke instead. comfy, stretch with your cycle, no digging in, no sweat rash

[Sunshineandflipflops]

I can't stand not wearing a bra and I'm a 34/36DD/E (depending on where I shop)! I find Bravissimo the best for fit but more expensive than M&S so I have a mixture of both. Always try on first though as bras can vary a lot depending on style and make.

I've never been one of those women who can't wait to get home and take their bra off at the end of the day as I just find it uncomfortable and have to hold my boobs when going up/downstairs!

Plus, at 41 and after 2 kids, they are not as pert as they may have once been and it's not a good look.

[JimandWilson]

Figleaves have a great selection for bigger busts.

I wear inexpensive sports bras / bralettes / supported crop tops wherever possible and have expensive bras in a few different materials for when it matters under decent clothing / special outfits etc.

I hate bras too and would much rather wear a lovely stretchy supportive crop top at 34F

[Toothsil]

I never find bras uncomfortable, I hate not wearing one and can't understand the people who can't wait to take them off!

[Bagelsandbrie]

Sorry that comment was aimed at @Proudboomer.

[Bagelsandbrie]

Why would someone a size 16 wearing a 36DD be automatically assumed to be wearing one that is too small...? I’m a size 16/18 and I am a 32H. Definitely a 32 round the ribs. Most women are wearing a back size that is too big for them, not the other way round.

[peakygal]

I hate bras. Im 36 F and when I wear a bra it is so uncomfortable. I always say they're like booby prison 😂 but of course I wear one when appropriate

[Proudboomer]

If you are a size 16 and squeezing into a 36dd you will be uncomfortable as your bra is too small.
A properly measured and fitted bra should never be uncomfortable.
I have also found that you get what you pay for with bras especially if you are larger busted. Always go for the better makes if you can afford to.
You are still young now but once you met middle age you will appreciate the fact that you have worn a well fitting decent bra for the last 20 years.

[DonaldJTrumpet]

I actually go to primark. Cheap and cheerful.

I am 36D and there's a possibility that's the biggest size they do.

I am shocked. Ever since I have had boobs I have been far more comfortable in one. Until I've worn one too long.

[Bluewavescrashing]

Sainsburys soft crop tops are fine for me at 34 D and so comfy. I hate bras too. Sometimes I just wear a vest under a top if I'm at home.

[SerenDippitty]

I very rarely wear wired bras any more and only wear soft cup ones or bralettes. I'm 34E/F. I feel quite comfortable in them.

[Menaimum]

Good advice about how to measure at boom or bust. If you measure at home do your underbust, then around fullest point which on average pre made clothing is about 3 inches above the band. The general rule is the difference in inches is how you find your cup size. Eg 36 back with 36.5 full is AA, 37 is A, 38 is B, 41 is DD. But what often is neglected is the top bust. If you are still full right up under the armpits you need fuller coverage. There are different styles that suit different volumes - for example in a balconette the push out gives a shelf effect on bigger breasts, on a half cup with D and above you won't feel very secure. All the work is done by a good close fitting band. Top tips for larger breasts
If you're full then a full cup which can be ... What's the word ..dowdy?
the more full the cup you'll want a thicker band - going up to 3 or 4 hooks
minimisers are uncomfortable, front closing gives you mono boob.
All that said get an account at simply be or something - lots to try on at home and send back what you don't like - they're pretty good value and gives you a chance to figure out your style and comfort levels. If you think you're 36DD get the same style in 34DD, 36DD, 36E and figure it out in comfort at home.
(I only wear one bra from M&S - I have 12 in all the colours but can't buy any more because now I'm boycotting them 🤷‍♀️) Different manufacturers are going to be slightly different so you never know til you know.
Signed, a seamstress with big ones.

[lockdown67]

@LumaLou why on earth have you reported me? I post on mumsnet ALL the time under various names. I'm asking for recommendations for places to buy bras ffs.

[formerbabe]

Not sure how true it is but I'm sure I read somewhere that breasts are held up by ligaments and once they're stretched, they never go back. So probably a good time to start wearing one whilst you're still relatively young. Not sure anyone will be measuring at the moment.