I am not a good enough mother to be a SAHM.
I have so much new-found respect for those who do stay home full time to raise children. I don't know how you cope. I'm on mat leave with a toddler and a 4 month old. The toddler would usually be at nursery but with Covid he's obviously now at home. I'm on solo childcare duty all day Mon-Fri as although DH is wfh, I wouldn't be working anyway so it makes sense for me to watch the children while he gets on with his job.
I'm on my knees. I start the day tired and frustrated, and end it angry, tired and frustrated. I don't recognise who I am anymore, I miss my job so much and I've turned into a monster around my toddler (who admittedly is being a complete pain in the arse, but he's as bored and frustrated as I am). It's breaking my heart and I feel like the worst mother in the world.
How do permanent SAHMs do it? How do you stay sane? How do you get to the end of every day without losing it completely? I think you must all have the patience of saints. This is so much harder than being a working mother. I'm longing to go back.
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ArtichokeAardvark · 12/06/2020 12:52
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