To the OP. I just had a very honest conversation with my flatmate, we are both white. We all know racism is a problem. And I think it is important to be honest in our conversations around this subject.
We were talking and we said that even though we can think that these deaths are horrible, and black people are treated horribly, white people would still let racism continue for a lot longer.
Why? Because we benefit from it. We have the power. And we do not even think of it in a way like "we want black people to suffer" we are thinking in a way of "i want more for me, more for me"
This is why racism is going on everywhere.
It is very hard to get humans to give up power.
And it is the exact same reason why men have been treating women like shit for decades. They love the power. And no matter how much you tell them that women are suffering, men will not give power up.
People with power do not want to give it up.
The only way to get things to change is for white people to be held way more accountable for what they do to black people, charge them more with hate crimes, if they say anything racist - to be fined and shamed.
Only when white people are held more accountable for their actions - will racism change.
The same with men- only when men are held more accountable for how they treat women, rape, discrimination having nore serious consequences, will sexism change