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Flying when your clothes smell of weed

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witchofzog · 02/04/2018 22:52

I am taking a close family members dd on holiday in a couple of weeks. She is 10 and really excited as it is her first holiday. The issue is that I am 99% sure her parents grow cannabis and her clothes smell of it. She stays with us frequently and even after washing her clothes there is still a lingering smell.

Please don't tell me to notify the police or social services. This is not what the thread is about. This little girl is not neglected, is very very loved, doing well at school etc. Her parents are people who have not had much luck in their lives, live in a universal credit area and constantly struggle for money (aside for every 3 months or so when they seem a bit better off which is another reason I suspect they are growing rather than smoking weed) . I will not be calling anyone about this. I love them all and feel helpless though I do help as much as I can with money, food, gifts of clothes etc for their dd.

My actual question is if I can smell weed on her clothes how on earth will we get through airport security.? I have bought her some new bits but simply cannot afford to replace her entire wardrobe for summer. Will we get stopped? Could this prevent us from flying even though we are not carrying anything? She is so looking forward to this holiday and selfishly so am I. Any advice would be really welcome. Thank you.

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ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 03/04/2018 12:47

What is this strange notion that dealers with knives will start hanging around the premises, stabbing each other? Is this based on watching police dramas on ITV?

It's likely the whole lot is sold on in one transaction to someone they know. Let's not get carried away.

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specialsubject · 03/04/2018 13:05

No, Sweetybumps, it is based on having to clear up afterwards.

Ffs. May you never have to put up with this, you'll be less liberal if you do.

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TheUser420 · 03/04/2018 13:18

What is this strange notion that dealers with knives will start hanging around the premises, stabbing each other? Is this based on watching police dramas on ITV?

Can't speak for what some people on this thread might have imagined, but a very real threat is gangs of "rippers" who go around raiding people growing cannabis ... after all why bother to go to the time, trouble and expense of growing your own cannabis, if you can rip off some poor schmuck doing it for you. Especially when you can make per gramme ?

These gangs are not cuddly and friendly. Baseball bats are the implement of choice. After all, their victims are hardly going to run to the police are they ?

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ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 03/04/2018 13:44

Ok fair point but for the sake of 2 or 3 plants? Stabbings and baseball bats?
I just think there's a massive knee jerk reaction on here to anyone mentioning cannabis. It's far from ideal to grow some in a house with your young daughter but talking of long custodial sentences and dealers with knives is a bit far fetched.

It's not my experience at all. Police won't bring charges for a small grow in my area. And a police night raid after a tip off from the airport about a child smelling of "an illegal substance?" (they won't know what drug as sniffer dogs can't talk) just sounds preposterous to me.

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witchofzog · 03/04/2018 14:07

Haha I love a good bevvy too Mythical and would hate it if someone decided to talk to me about it. But I do worry that the school might report to social services. As another poster said, maybe they are not aware of the smell if they live with it everyday. I like to think they would be ok if I was diplomatic enough

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Aragog · 03/04/2018 15:46

As another poster said, maybe they are not aware of the smell if they live with it everyday. I

We can smell it quite easily, even when a daily occurrence and yes, we do report it. However, unless there are other factors, then it may not be followed up with parents, etc. at the time.

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ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 03/04/2018 15:50

It's quite likely they don't smell it in their own house. Like the advert- they've gone nose blind.

As mentioned though, unless there were other concerns a child smelling of smoke or cannabis on it's own wouldn't be investigated as a safe guarding issue.

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QuitMoaning · 03/04/2018 18:52

For those saying sniffer dogs don’t operate for holiday destinations, I have had the sniffer dogs go over the queue at the gate twice. Once at Gatwick when going to Orlando 4 years ago and once at Stansted when going to Naples 5 years ago.
However when a group of us came back from Amsterdam we didn’t see one (and half of the group had used cannabis legally whilst out there)

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EleanorRobinson · 03/04/2018 23:05

Last time I flew, I decided I couldn’t risk flying with a family member’s backpack, fresh back from a trip from a festival and smelling similarly “fragrant”. I didn’t want to buy a new one but, after leaving the offending luggage in a closed room overnight, decided I would have to!

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Mightymucks · 03/04/2018 23:16

What is this strange notion that dealers with knives will start hanging around the premises, stabbing each other? Is this based on watching police dramas on ITV?

Nope. In my case it’s based on the fact my completely innocent neighbour was robbed at knifepoint by criminals looking for ‘the bud’ (eg: where’s the bud man, tell me where you’ve got the bud or you’ll get shanked).

This was because two doors away a house was being used as a weed growing factory and word of that had got out to some dodgy associates who had decided to steal their crop. Fortunately for the growers they’d been suspicious enough not to be entirely honest about the location for their crop so said associates robbed the wrong house. Unfortunately for the growers it also meant the police could no longer turn a blind eye and had to raid it freeing the trafficked slave who was looking after the plants at the same time.

Honestly it annoys me these idiots who pretend these are victimless crimes akin to having an allotment because they’re apparently to stoned to notice the link to organised crime and human trafficking

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ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 03/04/2018 23:33

Apologies I'll retract my rather flippant comment about people basing their thoughts on crime dramas.

I was trying to highlight the fact that posters were being overly dramatic over an OP who said her child relative smelt of weed and her parents "might" grow it, she wasn't sure but they never had any money. Hardly big time dealers.

I get your point, it's not a victimless crime. In fact that's one of the reasons cannabis should be legalised so as not to force it underground.
I haven't smoked it myself for years though, that's not my agenda.

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TheUser420 · 04/04/2018 10:26

freeing the trafficked slave who was looking after the plants at the same time.

If that happened, it would be a large scale commercial grow (possibly a decoy from the real thing, which won't have smelled ...). Exactly the reason so may people grow their own: to avoid going anywhere near dealers.

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MarthaArthur · 04/04/2018 18:45

There is some flippant comments on here. Some of us live with this shit day in day out and see how it affects people. Of course many people see it as a zero effect on anyone drug and riddicule those of us who know the opposite.

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Mumofkids · 04/04/2018 19:27

If you have noticed her smelling of weed then I would imagine school have. We stayed in a holiday house once that stank a lot like that but it turned out it was were wetsuits hung. They don't surf do they?
I doubt with a family not smelling of weed, she'd be singled out, but I'm not sure you should put up with her just stinking of weed...

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ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 04/04/2018 19:53

I already apologised for making a flippant comment about posters overdramatising. Sad
I just don't think OP is asking for generalised comments on the far reaching consequences of the cannabis industry.

There is a vast difference between growing weed at home for your own supply and the cannabis industry as part of organised crime.
I'm really not trying to ridicule anyone just point out that distinction.

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WellThisIsShit · 04/04/2018 23:06

Sounds like you have good advice on the washing & speaking to the family. I wish very much that both go well.

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MarthaArthur · 05/04/2018 10:55

I get that ilost i meant posters in general including someone who claims to grow weed themselves and gave me a funny look when i said skunk was worse.

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ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 05/04/2018 11:14

Oh right sorry Martha. You're right let's not pretend there isn't a horrible dark side to not only the organised cannabis industry but for users and their families as well.
Like alcohol, cannabis can be used recreationally and sensibly or it can become a massive problem or an addiction.

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MarthaArthur · 05/04/2018 11:27

Thanks *ilost you talk sense. Just sad for this little girl involved. Probably everyone will turn a blind eye to how shes living and its very sad.

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Twiggyy · 05/04/2018 11:35

Are they vegetarians?
I know some vegetarians that smell of weed and it's down to consuming a lot of a certain vegetable. I can't remember which one now (I'm off to google it again)

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witchofzog · 05/04/2018 14:25

Thank you wellthisisshit.

Sadly they are not vegetarians Twiggyy

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flapjackfairy · 05/04/2018 14:31

Dont know if this has been suggested but vac pac everything in those vacuum bags. This should contain the smell. And take a hairdrier to reuse them on the way back . Happy hols x

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SativaFarmer · 05/04/2018 14:36

Don't know if this has been suggested but vac pac everything in those vacuum bags. This should contain the smell.

But make sure the outside is scrubbed completely clean, or the transfer from hands to bag will be picked up ....

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witchofzog · 06/04/2018 09:17

That's a good idea flap. Thank you Smile

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NuttyGinge · 22/07/2023 15:51

Hey, I’m dying to know how it went, through the airport. In a similar situation myself soon

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