Right so I love DP, a lot. But I hate his messiness, and I hate who it's making me become.
I moan and moan, beg and recently even CRIED about it.
He felt bad, so cleaned the oven. Right before I was about to start cooking the Sunday dinner. For guests.
I lost my shit, and said to him if he cannot see how he can help, then I think the answer maybe separate houses. I can't live like this, and it's like he doesn't even see it half the time. I'm not even a hugely tidy person, either!
Just so I'm not dripfeeding: He worked shifts before - often starting 3pm and finishing at 3am, so majority of childcare and cleaning has always just been done by me, he is now doing 9-4.30, Monday to Friday, so I'm expecting a LOT more.
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Aibu to think seperate houses is a good idea?
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Mrsknackered · 12/11/2017 20:13
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