Went to our regular Thursday parent&toddler group to find the place damn near empty - it turned out that almost everyone else was at the birthday party of one of the kids that goes there. Basically it seems that the only mums& kids not asked were me and DS, and another mum whos DD is only 7 months old (all other kids in between 20 months and 3 yrs). It's a small group, generally about 10 regular kids.
Now, I'm quite aware that DS, at 2.6 is really too young to be bothered one way or the other, but It's kind of nagging away at me. I freely admit I've got f all in common with the other half-dozen mums, being about 15 years older than the oldest one for one thing, and I do have a bit of difficulty getting on with "normal" people. Basically, I'm not bothered that these women are not my friends, I don't desperately want to be friends with them. But I worry about the future for DS. Have I really got to teach him that craven conformity is the only way to have any friends? Or am I getting in a flap about nothing, because once he and other kids are a bit older they will just be* friends with each other whatever their parents think of one another...
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madamez · 29/03/2007 12:47
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