Probably am BU but just wanted to have a little vent!
I have today and tomorrow off work, I only work the 2 days as I have DS (2) the rest of the week with me. Tomorrow is my birthday.
I've got a leisurely day planned, run in the morning, long uninterrupted shower, lazy breakfast then I've got an appointment I've made that I'm actually looking forward to going to without worrying about entertaining a toddler at the same time. Just the running shop to get my stride assessed, but involves (obviously!) running on a treadmill in the shop, listening to the advisors, trying on shoes etc etc so boring if you're 2!
I made this appointment on the basis that my DH was going to try and get some time off work during the day so we can go to the cinema. His work have just restored one and we'd have it to ourselves. Would be lovely, only he's not been able to get it. So I made my appointment.
He comes home just now saying he's got it for tomorrow at 12.15. My appointment is at 12.00 and it's a 45min drive away from the cinema.
He also won't tell me what we'd be watching, only that I will "find out tomorrow".
He's now in a strop because I've asked if we have to do it at that time, is it flexible because I've actually made plans. To do what I want to do on my birthday.
His argument is I've had that today. Well I've not, I've cleaned the flat, done all the laundry, folded and put it all away, I've cooked dinner and I've had a doctors appointment (who was running 30mins late! Grr!!) along with a few other jobs that are easier when you have the flat to yourself, so actually on one of my child free days I've done nothing for myself.
He's in a right strop because "it's taken a lot of work to get the cinema!" And I told him I appreciate the thought, but if he's just told me it was back on I wouldn't have made plans!
AIBU to actually do what I want to do on my child free birthday tomorrow? Or am I being a cow for not appreciating the sentiment.
Sorry for the rant!! He's going to be like a sulky teenager for the rest of the day today now.
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To do what I want to on my birthday?
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mumthatruns · 26/06/2017 18:57
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