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To criticise DHs homemade shoe rack?

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Shoedisaster · 10/03/2017 19:59

I feel awful, he's just huffed off.
He's just made this shoe storage thing for our v small hallway. I wasn't keen on the colour or style really but didn't want to criticise him when he was actually doing something helpful for once. My only criteria was it must not be too big.

Now he's finished and put it in...and it's too big.
It's very helpful to have but leaves very little space coming up and and down the stairs imo. Or am I nit picking?

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iwasagirlinavillage · 10/03/2017 21:22

Ok, this might be a bit random but could it be attached to the wall higher up? At a position that's still usable but high enough to give you the floor space to manoeuvre. If not I think you need to get used to it. He has obviously put an effort in to it and he's done a good, if big, job.

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PigletJohn · 10/03/2017 21:12

A good trick for making shoe cabs shallow is to angle the shelves at 45degrees, the high side towards you.

But I wonder if there is a less awkward place you can put it in the hall.

I have one that is actually a wall wine rack left over from a kitchen fitting. It is about 900mm high x 300x300. Fits easily in a corner by the door. I thought about buying a wider one but they are incredibly a bit expensive. I am not fond of woodwork.

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outabout · 10/03/2017 21:07

The basic problem is that space is not large enough to accommodate adult size shoes. The rack is (probably) the size it needs to be to allow adult shoes to fit correctly. Right rack, wrong place!
If you had specified toddler size shoes it would have been less deep so allowing more space for safe use of the stairs.
Of course the feminists (or those attempting true equality) out there would have told DH to look after the little ones and make the tea while they get on and make a shoe rack.

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KungFuPandaWorksOut16 · 10/03/2017 21:01

I'm a worry wart, I'd have visions of some one tripping down the stairs and knocking themselves out on so wouldn't want it there. Is very nice though! Is there nowhere else you could put it?

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BadTasteFlump · 10/03/2017 20:58

YABU.

didn't want to criticise him when he was actually doing something helpful for once are you usually so condescending towards him? Or is he genuinely completely useless? Either way you have a bigger problem than a shoe rack.

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IDoAllMyOwnStunts · 10/03/2017 20:54

One that fitted into the corner would give you more space like this one

To criticise DHs homemade shoe rack?
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LeSquigh · 10/03/2017 20:51

YABU, I would pay for that! He could have paid more attention to the size but otherwise it looks pretty good!

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MrsCobain · 10/03/2017 20:50

He's done a little lovely job on it!

He must feel a bit sad as it really looks like he made a lot of effort. I say this as a wife of a carpenter too.

It is too big though. The second picture made me burst out laughing.

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ClaryIsTheBest · 10/03/2017 20:50

Not. Saying. A. Thing.
huh? Confused

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ShakeofFara · 10/03/2017 20:48

Grin IShould.

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diddl · 10/03/2017 20:46

" Being 'an adult' doesn't actually make us all SKILLED at DIY tasks."

No, but surely it also means that you don't have to tip toe around & can just say "great-now make it fit".

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AGnu · 10/03/2017 20:46

At least you've got a shoe rack... My DH has been insisting he wants to build one since we moved in 6 years ago! He's built various other bits of shelving, etc. so I don't complain too much, but it would be nice to have it.

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ItShouldHaveBeenJingleJess · 10/03/2017 20:45

he usually doesn't get to work with his hands Not. Saying. A. Thing.

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WizardOfToss · 10/03/2017 20:43

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ClaryIsTheBest · 10/03/2017 20:41

Oh, the poor dear!!

I don't know. DH is always so proud when he does stuff like that (he's a historian, so he usually doesn't get to work with his hands).

So, I don't know if I could have criticised him! But yes, whilst I thought it would look wayyy worse. It does take away space. Not sure what to say. Could you use it for something else?

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notangelinajolie · 10/03/2017 20:41

Aw bless! Be nice to him, he's done his best.

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AnnieAnoniMouse · 10/03/2017 20:41

How close do you like to IKEA? They make shoe racks for human adults, not Bigfoot.

Honestly, I'm still laughing.

...and yes 'Bless him' he tried. Being 'an adult' doesn't actually make us all SKILLED at DIY tasks.

LazyAfternoon on which planet does it fit nicely 😂

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Semaphorically · 10/03/2017 20:40

I think it looks quite nice. My DH could never make something like that! From your title I was expecting tape and cardboard or similar.

Can he make the shelves at an angle so it's narrower?

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ItShouldHaveBeenJingleJess · 10/03/2017 20:39

I'd post a picture of my 'shoe rack' to compare but I'm too ashamed. It's basically a bin. One neighbour who popped in said "Oh, well done, you're having a clear out". Er, no, that's my storage system...

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DJBaggySmalls · 10/03/2017 20:38

Its nicely made, but too big and a hazard for anyone falling down the stairs. A shoe bag hung on the wall would take up less space.

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microferret · 10/03/2017 20:37

oh bless him. I do feel for you OP but I don't think it's worth it to complain. he's obviously made a big effort and it does look quite nice, even if it is a bit big.

I'd give him a hug and see if you can patch up his ego - compromise is sometimes a bit more important than anything else.

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Crumbs1 · 10/03/2017 20:36

Ok in which case just await stubbed toes and scuffed shins with a smug look.

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diddl · 10/03/2017 20:32

Bless him??

Good grief!

I really like it, but with just a little more thought/planning, he could have made it perfectly in the first place.

He's an adult FFS!

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Lazyafternoon · 10/03/2017 20:30

Oh I think it's really nice. What's it like with a pair of his shoes on? It looks quite big with kids shoes, but any smaller and would it be too small for man shoes?

I can see that it's going to be kicked a lot and perhaps some bruised knees, but it does fit nicely and look lovely. Give it a couple of weeks and see if you get used to it x

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SparklyUnicornPoo · 10/03/2017 20:30

I really like it. it is a bit big for your hallway though.

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