Last year they stayed in our home... for over a month. We don't have a spare room so they had our room, we camped in with toddler DD. It didn't go well. Clash of cultures, different ideas about food, siestas, mealtimes, child raising, misunderstandings due to language barrier etc. As the weeks went by I felt increasingly angry and resentful. They rarely went out and spent hours watching TV or napping while I chased after toddler. I felt like I had no downtime or privacy.
So this time they are staying nearby in a holiday let (their idea). DH is unhappy about this. He wants them to 'feel welcome' to stay at ours anytime. He says next visit (in another 6 months or so) we must insist they stay with us.
Last time they stayed, it was up to me to entertain them all day as he was at work, so from 5am-8pm I was 'on duty'. It's also up to me to cook, clean, change bedding and do all the other guest-related tasks.
It's my home too! I do all the night wakings and 5am starts with toddler, I can't cope with hosting right now!
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NettleCake · 20/01/2017 16:07
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