I'm not sure if I should be concerned or whether it's just children being children .
My niece is 6. I often watch her after school whilst my sister is working.
Today I offered her a small pack of chocolate buttons (the treat size ones).
DN stood there examining them so I asked if they were OK and she replied:
"I'm not sure whether to have them now or wait for my "cheat day" "
I was a little bit taken aback but just brushed it off .
Later she was going through my make up bag (I let her look) and she says "I don't like looking in the mirror . My face is fat and ugly".
I'm pretty crushed by this - she's 6!
I told her she was lovely , she's far from fat and even if she was , she is smart and that's what will get her through life .
I'm not sure if I handled it well but I did mention it to her mum (my sister) and she is gutted about it .
I know she hasn't picked this up from home as my sister never says anything like this .
A couple of the girls DN plays with in school seem to be much more mature than DN and I know they watch things and are "exposed" to things such as the news (obviously mostly bad these days!) and you tube etc - whereas DN is not .
AIBU to feel shocked and upset by this ?
She's 6!!!
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MaybeJustOneDance · 14/09/2016 20:00
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