AIBU to expect DH might be in a fit state to help once he returns from a stag do?

[WereJammin]

DH has been on a stag do this weekend but is now back. He said he came back early Coz he wanted to see me and LO, which is nice. However he's currently conked out and doing FA. I'm a tad miffed by this as I've done the childcare and chores this weekend while he's away and sort of hoped he might help me once he was back. Should I just be cool with the fact that it's a stag do so he's going to come back and be useless due to hangover?

[SunnyBanker]

Well I have to ask...if you've had all weekend to do the childcare and chores, what exactly is left to do at this time on a Sunday night?

He's been on a stag do which is (presumably) a one off...let the poor bugger sleep! I went on a 3 day hen do a couple of months ago and got back at 4pm on the Sunday and I would have been miffed if dh gave me a list of stuff to do as soon as I stepped in the door.

[MozzchopsThirty]

I agree sunny, who wants a list of stuff to do when they get in the door

What are you expecting from him OP?

[StMary]

I would have been miffed if dh gave me a list of stuff to do as soon as I stepped in the door.

It seemed more like the OP hoped her DH would at least be present given he'd used her and their DC as an excuse To come home.

If he wanted a rest he would've been better off feigning illness but staying put in the hotel schoolboy error

[Rachcakes]

Leave him be and plan yourself a blinding girls weekend soon

[trafalgargal]

Go for it
Give him a reallyhard time .....and next stag do you can guarantee he won't bother even thinking of coming home early.

If you didn't want him to go in the first place then you should have said rather than gone PA afterwards (I don't get the SAHM idea that one child means there's still loads to do at the weekend, my way of looking at it was I got everything done in the week freeing up family time for the three of us to spend without any major chores)

[WereJammin]

In response to questions about being ill, he has actually handed me the baby after 2 hours when I had food poisoning because he hadn't been able to do something he wanted to with his car. That hacked me off.

I wasn't planning a list of chores for him... Just as he was here would have liked a bit of help at the time with tea and putting the washing away. We both work so there are jobs to do at the weekend.

[bakingaddict]

Did you take the baby or fix him a death stare saying are you fucking crazy jog on which would be my response

[RunRabbitRunRabbit]

If you took the baby then you are a martyr. Don't be a martyr. Say no.

Yabu about the stag weekend though. Assuming it is a rare event of course.