Name changed for this as the likelihood of this appearing elsewhere is very high these day.
I grew up in a pretty filthy home in the late 80's. 7 kids in the house, all close in age with 2 working parents meant that cleanliness was never high on my parents to do list.
I had one uniform for school and it would only ever be washed on a Friday evening, so if I stained it or dirtied it in any way, I would have to still wear it until Friday.
We had once a week baths on Sunday, washing up and bin were only dealt with when they reached maximum capacity, I mean dirty plates all over the counter and rubbish by the bin instead of in the bin because the bin was too full.
A few friends commented on the state of my home as a small child and by secondary, I never invited anyone home.
This has left me somewhat obsessed with cleanliness as an adult, everything has to be washed up immediately, baths/showers every day, clean clothes are a must and their can't be a crumb anywhere.
I have 3 DC, I've taught them from an early age how important cleanliness is, my eldest 16 and my youngest 7 have never given me trouble but DD 12 is practically at war with me over this.
She has to be called back to wash her dishes, she wears the same socks until they're not wearable, I have to argue with her to shower or have a bath every night, she tries to sneak food up to her bedroom which I can't stand, their bedrooms have to be clean before bed but all her clothes, books, bits of paper seem to cover every inch of her floor every night and every night I make her clean it.
Last night I told her to clean her room around 5pm, then repeated it after dinner, when I went up at 8, the room was a tip and she was fast asleep on the bed, it took everything I had not to wake her up and just go back downstairs.
This morning at 10, I told her she wouldn't be going anywhere until it was clean. She said okay and then at 11, her friend shows up, they were about to go up to DD's room when I asked DD if she'd cleaned her room, she said no, so I said the room was off limits and that they could sit in the Lounge.
After lots of eyes rolls and mutterings, they sat down and then when DD's friend left, I told her to clean her room again and she called me a clean freak.
I don't think I'm being unreasonable at all, what is so hard about wearing clean clothes and having a clean room. If her room was clean, they could have gone up there but it wasn't.
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