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Do you think my son's wrist is broken?

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WilkinsonL · 14/05/2016 18:15

My son is 11 and is in Year 6. He plays football at lunch.

He fell over and was rolling around on the floor telling his friend to get a teacher. She came over - not a teacher, but the lunch assistant. Told him to get up, he got up and she asked if he was okay now and he said that his wrist was hurting. She said he should go to medical. He goes off to medical with his friend. The lady in medical is the receptionist, but she has done a first aid course. She was touching it and was asking if he could feel her and he said yes, but it was hurting. She said "I think you'll be fine" and he said no but it hurts and can't move it properly, she said that's why happens after an injury and that if he broke it he would be in absolute tears, so she knows it isn't Hmm

He was sent to his classroom, his teacher even said it looked a little odd and my son said that he had already been to medical and she said it was fine, so his teacher just left it. I got him at the end of the day and he was okay, gave him some pain relief and seemed alright, he said it was still a bit sore. I suggested to the medical lady (as I went to the office when I got him as his teacher gave me a medical slip, which means there is a recorded accident) that maybe I should get it X-Rayed... She told me to definitely not worry about that and it will just be wasting A and E time and resources as he clearly isn't in distress. I'm not medically trained at all. So I did take her word for it... He has woken up today, with it looking a little bit bruised and not able to properly move it. I was going to take him, but his dad said that I shouldn't worry because school said it was fine. He has been okay today, he has just been watching films, not moving it, but now I'm not sure if I should just go against everyone and take him???

What do you think...? Sorry if I'm coming across a bit stupid, I have never dealt with a broken bone before! He has never even needed to go to a and e.

Do you think my son's wrist is broken?
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amarmai · 14/05/2016 22:17

looking after your ds is not wasting resources, it's doing your job as a parent, which the school in loco parentis did not do and further tried to stop you doing. Def go to emergency and get him x ray ed. When you get the result s, if it is broken , insist that this is included in the school accident report and ask for a copy of it.

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WilkinsonL · 14/05/2016 22:19

You were all right! It's broken. Poor baby. They had to pull it a bit, which made my toes curl, but he wasn't sedated? They did it with gas and air, why is that?? Anyway, one tired and casted boy later, we are leaving! Took way too long! Follow up in fracture clinic in a few days for a proper cast. Thank you all

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Wishfulmakeupping · 14/05/2016 22:20

Brave lad hope he's ok

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HPandBaconSandwiches · 14/05/2016 22:30

Brave boy! So glad you took him. Gas and air is very effective and wears off much faster than other sedatives making it much safer. Get him to have some calpol and Bruce's before fracture clinic, it'll be sore having the cast changed.

When you've had chance to take it all in, please write to the head. The receptionist clearly overestimates her own abilities which is vastly more dangerous than having no first aider at all.

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HPandBaconSandwiches · 14/05/2016 22:31

Oops brufen not Bruce's! Blush

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almostthirty · 14/05/2016 22:32

Bless him!
Hope he has a quick recovery.
Would love to be a fly on the wall when you tell the first aider at school that it's broken.

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AllTheDwarves · 14/05/2016 22:36

Why would you come here first for medical advice? Take him to a hospital woman!! What is this crazy world we live in?

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Lifeisontheup2 · 14/05/2016 22:37

Gas and air is a type of mild sedation and avoids the (very small) risk of a GA. I've reduced fracture/dislocation ankles with gas and air before and it's a lot quicker than waiting for a GA.
Glad he's feeling better.

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ExasperatedAlmostAlways · 14/05/2016 22:41

Poor boy now get a serious complaint in about that 'first aider' she doesn't deserve to have that role I wouldn't be happy with her being allowed to continue with it. What would happen if it had been a child with a serious concussion whose parents she managed to persuade to leave for a full day and not to waste a and e time!

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FrancesNiadova · 14/05/2016 22:44

Bless your son, Wilkinson. It will probably really ache tonight. I hope he's on the mend soon.ChocolateCake for him, just 1 Wine and Flowers for you -x-

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3yearoldlittleboyandgirl · 14/05/2016 23:09

Glad he's okChocolate

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FreshPrincessOfBelAir · 14/05/2016 23:18

Allthedwarves because a first aider said it was fine (twice) and as a nation we are afflicted with the dangerous fear of 'making a fuss'.
Being told by a whole bunch of people to get it checked, I am sure, gave the OP the confidence to go and get it looked at.

Well done OP's son for being so brave!

Ps I walked (limping admittedly) on a broken leg so the bollocks about 'not being able to move it' being the only required proof for broken bones is very annoying and the first aider should have known better. .

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KimmySchmidtsSmile · 14/05/2016 23:54

Oh, your little boy is a sweetie OP.
At least he will get a signed cast.
If it is his writing hand, rather than making him scrawl with his other one, ask his school to give him a laptop or other device to type his notes from class then print out to stick in his book.
You now need something to scratch under the cast with in a few weeks' time, knitting needle or the like.
I have been a school first aider. It is a bloody thankless task but I would point out that he needed A+E and maybe they should go for a refresher course Wink that said, as I said before, my own fractures on both wrists (both were broken at same time) did not show up for 36 hours/three weeks respectively. Pain thresholds are different for each individual.
Good recovery for your son. Brew for you both! Xx

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KimmySchmidtsSmile · 14/05/2016 23:55

P.S. am joking about the knitting needle!! I used a chopstick!

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3yearoldlittleboyandgirl · 15/05/2016 02:31

I never got itchy under my cast!

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SouthDownsSunshine · 15/05/2016 06:45

Poor chap, well done on taking him to A&E. I would kick up a fuss with the school though!

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kelda · 15/05/2016 07:28

The poor boy. I hope he recovers soon.

As for the first aider. You really need to complain about her. Not only did she give you bad advice but she actively tried to put you off following your own instincts and take him to the hospital. She was really quite patronising the way she spoke to you both.

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notyourmummy · 15/05/2016 07:45

Agree about talking to school about first aider - I'm an over cautious first aider and parents get narky with me when they're asked to come and have a look at their child's injury, but better safe than sorry imo!

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Scarydinosaurs · 15/05/2016 07:56

Definitely let school know the exact conversation you had with their first aider.

Call ahead/send in a letter Monday morning explaining his injury and permission to give pain relief if he needs it.

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Bluecarrot · 15/05/2016 07:57

I'm always worrying about wasting Drs time esp in children's a&e, but both times it was necessary visits even though I was almost turning car around on way home.
Glad you got it seen too and hope he recovers quickly. Dd broke both arms at the same time but had casts off in 3 weeks.

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CleanHankie · 15/05/2016 08:01

I'm a school first aider and it was drummed into me during training that we should tell the patient "seek further medical advice if worried". Why would she tell you not to go?! Madness. My only thought is that if we call for an ambulance or advise parents to go to A&E, there are further medical forms to be filled in that are held by the County Council for Schools. Maybe she wanted to save herself paperwork.
Make sure you take your son in to see her Monday, love to see her face!

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PirateFairy45 · 15/05/2016 08:07

I'm glad you've taken him but I seriously can't believe you asked on an online forum instead of taking him as soon as you saw it.

What would have happened if the women on here said "don't worry about it? It looks a bit weird but sure it'll be fine.?"

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AtSea1979 · 15/05/2016 08:25

I hope you raise this with the school. They clear need a better first aid training provider. It should have been in a sling. It might not have needed manipulating under gas if it had mean in a sling in first place.

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Cubtrouble · 15/05/2016 08:32

You are not wasting NHS time where a child is concerned.

Glad he's ok.

First aider should be ashamed

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PUGaLUGS · 15/05/2016 08:32

Result!

Please make a complaint.

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