She picks up DS 3 days a week, has him for 1.5 hours till DP or I come home.
On several occasions she is late or tells me that week/night before that she can't do it (most times this has happened has been a hosp appt or holiday she's know about for weeks.) I understand there are times when things come up, she can't always be there obviously and for those times we have alternative options - DP's dad can sometimes pick him up or he can go to after school club. But we need some notice esp when she's known about it for ages and DP's dad has something else on or after school club has to be booked.
I have asked her time and time again for some notice so we can get plans arranged in advance, not just the night before. She gets angry and asks why I can't just take the day off, which of course I could do if I had some notice to do that! I don't mind that at all, she is doing us a favour after all, but work doesn't work that way! (She doesn't work)
Today she has said she needs a holiday, can't tell me when, it'll be in the next few weeks. I said could you give me an idea of dates please so I can speak to FIL. She says she can't, sorry and I am totally not understanding when it comes to this.
Am I unreasonable to expect just a bit of time to organise alternatives? I have booked afteschool club for the rest of dec now because I just won't have an idea what day she's not going to turn up until the night before
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CerseiHeartsJaime4ever · 16/11/2015 10:54
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