When I was at uni (14 years ago) I got on really well with all my housemates - there were 8 of us and a mix of males and females. Since leaving uni we've all kept in touch by various means - emails and occasional meet ups. There was another couple who kind of got added to the group but I never knew them as well.
I think the last time we were all together was my wedding 7 years ago. All my housemates were invited to the day and the other couple I didn't know as well to the evening reception. Since then I've seen them all maybe twice - but they have all had a few more meet ups and a few holidays abroad. I haven't been able to go to any of these due to having my son.
Anyway due to Facebook I noticed that the other couple got married a few weeks ago - they live in the same town as me but I don't see them.I wasn't expecting to be invited (ok maybe to the evening bit to be honest) but I wasn't. That's fine and I'd be U to complain about that. It's just from seeing the photos every one else was invited - and some juSt had evening invites too. I'm just gutted they were all a few miles away having a good time :(
After the wedding I sent an email to everyone saying congratulations on the wedding you looked lovely, hope you all had a good time and just did a little update on what's been happening for me and saying I'd love to hear all your news. A week later nobody has replied as yet.
I am probably BU to feel a bit excluded - they have probably had meet ups and sent emails to each other I haven't been included in. It just seems since I had children I'm no longer included in anything (I'm the only one with DC). So if nobody replies do I just give up and stop worrying myself about it all?
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DirtyMugPolice · 05/09/2015 08:38
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