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to think this is a bit shitty

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Bonkers1 · 16/07/2015 23:14

I've been given a great opportunity to temporarily cover a vacant position at work since someone left. The job is a promotion for me and I am aware I need to be interviewed for it to become a permanent position, however I am in a very good place to get the job since I've been covering it for a couple of months.

I was telling a colleague from a different dept about this, I know her well, we're always having coffee and lunch etc. I was saying how much I'd love to get the job permanently and she knew how important it was for me. I find out today that she's applied for the job at the eleventh hour. It's not even a promotion for her, it's a sideways step. There are no other applicants.

I know she is perfectly within her rights to apply for the job, I just feel really pissed off about it and think it's a shitty thing for her to do. I would still have needed to pass an interview to get the job but now I have competition and pretty stiff competition she is too as she's better qualified than me. I know it's dog eat dog out there. Maybe I've been naive.

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Hissy · 23/07/2015 22:06

Star well done!!

AtrociousCircumstance · 23/07/2015 22:10

Fantastic! How have things been between you and your colleague? Did you discuss it? How has she reacted to you getting the job?

LilyMayViolet · 23/07/2015 22:18

So happy to hear that!!! Flowers

Singsongsung · 23/07/2015 22:18

I had this. I covered a job for 2 years. Received nothing but praise at all levels. The other candidate got the job.
I was gutted and resigned the following week.
Personally I think it's shitty behaviour to put yourself up against the person already in the temporary role. I'd never dream of doing it to a colleague.

Singsongsung · 23/07/2015 22:20

Sorry. Just seen update. Well done!

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BitchBags · 23/07/2015 22:39

Yay well done :)

TryToEngageBrainFirst · 23/07/2015 22:44

I'm really pleased for you. Congratulations. Flowers

Off the point, what's the shamrock emoticon on page 1????

FadedRed · 23/07/2015 23:00

Well done Op Wine Cake

SycamoreMum · 23/07/2015 23:06

Ahh nice one! I was just about to tell you to spit in her coffee and declare war GrinThanks

Lweji · 23/07/2015 23:08
Grin

Congratulations.

Bonkers1 · 23/07/2015 23:23

Thankyou everyone. It was odd when I met my her at the interview but I just smiled, was pleasant and left her looking awkward. I still feel riled by what happened but It all worked out for me. Thank god!

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WhyIRayLiotta · 24/07/2015 00:00

Well done. I've had smaller scale similar. Dignified is the way to go! I'm irrationally pleased by this! Wine

Bogeyface · 24/07/2015 00:23

Go you!!!

:)

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