DS is 2 years 3 months and the light of our lives following 2 years of fertility treatment. He was a really easy baby but as a toddler is a miniature tornado incredibly 'lively', 'spirited' and challenging. Literally he does not stop from 6:30am to 7:30pm, doesn't nap and wakes during night probably once to twice a week.
We had always thought that we would give DS a sibling after 2.5-3 years but now that time is approaching I just can't imagine life with Ds and a newborn. Ds is so active I just can't imagine chasing after him with a newborn as well. But on the other hand I can't imagine him not having a brother or sister. I am very close to my brother and would love the same for DS. but is that reason enough to have a second baby? No one else in RL seems to feel like this, all my NCT group either have 2nd babies or are pregnant again because they actively want another baby IYSWIM? I look at their babies and think aww how cute but I just keep thinking how hard life will be.
We have thought about waiting a while but how close would siblings be if there is 4 year gap? Plus we don't know how long it will take as we had fertility treatment to conceive Ds.
did anyone have a second child purely to give their first child a sibling and did it work out ok?
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Acunningruse · 26/01/2015 12:49
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