The village where we live has done organised trick or treating around the shops for the last 2 years. We couldn't go last year as we were visiting family, but told DS1 that we would take him if they did it again.
One of his classmates invited him to a birthday party, the timing of which clashed completely with the organised trick or treating.
When we got the invitation I sat him down and explained about the clash and asked which he'd rather go to.
He chose the party so we RSVPd, and chose and wrapped a present.
This morning we were with some other friends who were talking about the trick or treating, and DS1 suddenly felt he'd be missing out, and changed his mind.
I told him tough, it's rude to cancel going to a party just because you'd rather do something else, and dragged him to the party, although I couldn't persuade him to put a costume on.
He had a thoroughly miserable time, and engineered a disagreement with his best friend so he could ask to go.
The friends who'd talked up the trick or treating felt bad for making him feel left out, so called round with their parents and took him round our estate for 20 minutes, and shared the sweets they'd collected at the shops with him.
WIBU to make him go to the party when he said he'd rather do something else? He didn't enjoy himself and possibly fell out with his best friend, and if he'd decided to tantrum instead of sulk he could have spoiled the party for the rest of his classmates instead of just one of them.
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WIBU to my 5 yr old son over party invite and trick or treating clash
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RachelWatts · 31/10/2014 18:08
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