Morning all, I've nc for this as I fear a backlash from fatty haters.
I was having a really good think about this yesterday and would like your thoughts. In a nutshell I want to know, with regards to my two daughters, should I encourage 'be comfortable in your own skin, acceptance, look after yourself, not about number on scales/dress size, beauty doesn't = skinny' OR 'being overweight = unhealthy, therefore being slim/healthy BMI is the only way'. ?
Obviously I would phrase both views more sensitively! Myself, I'm 5ft 3, 11 st 12 and, according to BMI chart, I'm obese. I'm size 16. I've just started c25k at the gym, I don't drink, I love cooking and eating. I am more often than not from the 'acceptance' camp and feel strongly that I am who I am, I've achieved so much in my life yet still feel I'm judged by my weight/looks. So most of the time I'm happy with what I see in the mirror, love love love the body image movement/embrace your body stuff.... but this is peppered with days of 'get out the weight watchers books you need to lose 2.5 stone'. But that's not me, I hate the dieting industry, the pressure (perceived?) to be thin, but obviously I want myself and girls to be healthy in mind and body...
Aibu to be totally confused?
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Fat -v- thin body image dilemma
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Topsycurvy · 02/09/2014 08:31
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