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AIBU?

To think DH only very very slightly U for buying another BMW because our neighbour told him he was too common to own a BMW?

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Sneezecakesmum · 10/05/2014 16:32

The new one is a convertible btw. A Z4 Grin

Haha

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Martorana · 11/05/2014 11:40

My 10 year old Subaru is the most comfortable car for long journeys I have ever driven. And is very posh. But I'm sure a brand new BMW is even more comfortable. Just like my ds tells me that Superdry T shirts are more comfortable than Tesco ones............Grin

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Sneezecakesmum · 11/05/2014 11:37

I just want to reiterate. DH and I are not saying we are posh, we most definitely are very average and ordinary. DH didn't buy the cars because they were a status symbol but because he loves the comfort and drive a BMW gives on long journeys.

It's the nasty snobby neighbour who said we were too common to own a BMW!

Now she really is snobby and imo not at all posh Grin

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ComposHat · 11/05/2014 10:36

Yep knackered old Volvo or a Saab has far more social cachet than a new BMW. It says I have money (as they are quite expensive to buy in the first place) but really don't care and have no anxieties about my class status.If you grasp thos ypu are a good way to Iunderstanding the British class system.

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TondelayoSchwarzkopf · 11/05/2014 10:34

I drive an elderly Saab. I wasn't aware it was posh. Confused

I don't really understand the posh BMW thing - it was our first car when we lived in a tiny room in a shared house. I had no idea it was a status symbol in itself in certain circles . Surely it depends on the model?

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Summerbreezing · 11/05/2014 10:27

I had a brush with a rude ignorant mare in the supermarket recently. I wasn't the least bit surprised to see her climbing into a BMW in the car park afterwards.
In my experience some of the rudest most aggressive drivers on the road drive BMWs. They are not posh cars, they are just magnets for a certain type of person.

PS Also know a couple of very nice people who drive BMWs. But as a general rule they seem to be the most popular car amongst knobs.

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RhondaJean · 11/05/2014 10:27

I've been thinking (i know i know) and a proper posh car to me is either an ancient Volvo estate or an elderly Saab.

Occasionally a Land rover defender (my uncle used to drive one) but I reckon their stocks gone down cos I'm sure Jordan's current husband was pictured in one during the week.

Basically if you have to have a car to show how posh you are, you're not posh at all?

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ComposHat · 11/05/2014 10:22

Oh dear. I know nothing about cars and always like it when my boss gives me a lift in his Audi TT ( my son told me that's what it is)
Do you work at Toni & Guy?

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flippinada · 11/05/2014 09:29

Is anyone else reading the thread reminded of ??

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AuntieUrsula · 11/05/2014 09:20

Just be grateful he didn't say your DH was too common to have a Maserati!

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dementedma · 11/05/2014 09:15

Oh dear. I know nothing about cars and always like it when my boss gives me a lift in his Audi TT ( my son told me that's what it is) as it seems the height of poshness to me. Have I been conned?

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Tealady1983 · 11/05/2014 08:57

BMW on every corner here. New build estate though so to be expected. We have a Suzuki xcross brand new no finance but inside is like a skip Wink

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bigdog888 · 11/05/2014 08:54

Nowt wrong with the Z4 as long as it's at least the 3.0 version otherwise it's a bit hairdresser!

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Martorana · 11/05/2014 08:48

I drive a 10 year old muddy Subaru Forester with a tow bar and usually a bale of hay in the back. Now that's posh.

There is no such thing as a posh new car.

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NickNackNooToYou · 11/05/2014 08:40

Harriet247 your Dad sounds rather fabulous dahling Grin

Love the idea of bringing home a steam train Grin Grin

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ComposHat · 11/05/2014 08:32

Given the amount the op's husband has spent, I'd guess it is about eight or nine years old. The message that it sends out is not 'I am posh' but I wanted a BMW any BMW and I am desperately trying to cover up the age with a vanity plate (which is in itself flawed as those who care enough to check will know it is a mk one)

It is all a bit nouveau (not particularly) riche.

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LtEveDallas · 11/05/2014 05:56

Loads of 'big' beemers round here, but that's because the squaddies buy them tax free when they are posted to Germany. My mate has just traded his in for a sensible Skoda to get the dog in. Must admit his old car was very comfortable though.

'Posh' would be a Saab for me but only because the poshest person I've ever met drove one. It's a Cavalry Car.

I'd love an old E Type Jag or Royal Enfield Bike - bottomless money pits but oh so pretty.

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MrsTerryPratchett · 11/05/2014 05:38

I've thought of another one, Carmen Ghia (is that how you spell it?). Posh.

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ComposHat · 11/05/2014 01:58

Sorry Alvis not Avis.

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ComposHat · 11/05/2014 01:33

An Avis is what you want. The car of choice for the rakish second sons of the aristocracy.

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LoopyKitten · 11/05/2014 01:23

I want a Morgan. Proper posh car.

To think DH only very very slightly U for buying another BMW because our neighbour told him he was too common to own a BMW?
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ComposHat · 11/05/2014 01:14

I don't know what a Z4 is

It is what a hairdresser trades her Peugeot 206cc in for when she gets made senior stylist.

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ComposHat · 11/05/2014 01:09

BMW screams small time loanshark to me. The drugs dealers round our way have moved on.

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stopgap · 11/05/2014 00:29

I always think of classic cars when I think posh. Morgans etc.

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TereseaGreen · 10/05/2014 23:09

If I was a drug dealer I think I would buy a Hyundai. They are the height of trustworthiness. It's always nice to have a plan. Surely the idea is to remain as unsuspicious as possible?.

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MrsC1966 · 10/05/2014 22:29

I believe drug dealers enjoy a wide variety of different makes & models however they do have a soft spot for gansta glass (tinted windows) Wink

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