Had to chuckle at this.
so true even better when their kids go same school as yours so you tend to have better idea.
Freind at school thinks her is gifted and talented so much so she may have over boasted as met another mum at supermarket who talked about how smug she is and how nasty and socially inept her child is.
Ddd1 had parents evening other week but after 5 weeks with new teacher not really much she could say dd quite average struggles some areas but as long as shes trying and happy then im happy.
I think childs personality and kindness important as much as their academics.
But dident learn much other than her teacher hates gove and how hard the job is shes bit odd but people keep saying shes good.
People do the same end of term reports.
in year 1 we had awful report ok parents evening but i don;t brag about things thats not true may have said shes done really well to catch up.
Thankfully the parents within dds school are not slightest bit competative mostly in fb land.
I have 1 fb Friend met online she posted start of this term a photograph of text from childs teacher odd i never know teachers send personal text what lovely child and how well behaved joy to have in class last week she randomly posted im so ashamed hes been naughty all term cheered me up thought you made yourself look like an idiot.
Not to trump sports day-well done son you did so well, mum I come last,, does not matter mummy so proud of you.
The boasters tend to be lol the ones who like tesco, love their babies, overuse the word babe ad call their daughters their princesses just remind myself they clearly unhinged and move on. I have had to hide a few annoying peoople.
But when set yourself up publicly like that then greater chance of public failure ie he was so bright but failed 11+ad going to very well performing sports academy instead.
Also few years ago and think this is true.
reports tend to have generic stuff and they codes for what they really mean but said in more polite way.
Ie shes very spirited and joyful=handful.
very confident=bossy
im sure if they took step back and analysed maybe not as glowing as they thnk.
Statistically not the entire nation can be gifted and talented maybe just the mumsnetters kids.
People tend to make everything seem positive spin like they their own pr and fb way to edit perfect life.
I still remember hell of senior parents evening year 7 god my parents were mad shouted at me and most years dad end up late they would row ad it would be strained and mum would fall pout with least one of my teachers