Sorry need a holiday grandparents are strugging.
My grandparents on dads side always have struggled.
One thing that baffles me and we touched upon it earlier
is the way we live in uk.
Im not sure intergenerational living would make a come back as houses tiny , expensive here and lost fanilies live different places as lots do go where the jobs are.
But in usa they have really nice retirement villages.
I see mil rattle round in house thats too big.
she moans about the stairs.
The gardens too much for her.
Then to heat such a big house.
her reluctance to move she would have put fil in a home rather than move.
Im not worried about the money.
But im sure she be happier ina bugalow close to shops and ammenities like libary which she would use.
I think the way elderly people live in uk can be isolating.
So to protect oaps in social housing when there,s so few housing availaible seems odd.
I know theres memories but when you die cant take it with you.
I don't understand why they dont sell up to make their final years more comfortable and easier.
If we had really good quality retirement villages, or sheltered housing with things like communal lounge would they not be happier? bit like uni halls for elderly their own personal living space with some share communal areas.
Why does it have to be stay in huge house or old peoples home.
I have friend looking on right move for house with space for granny annex for her elderly mother but shes having heck of job finding one.
I dont think im being yanbu n few years time when things are harder than they are now.
people will be asking whos a vunerable group and why are all oaps vunerable no matter what their income and other groups like kids and disabled are not protected
I hope we dont see repeat of riots but can see why people get fed up some weeks I think wish I could emigrate but we stay where we are as mil needs us close.
The goverenment either believe in universil benefits or they dont.
They dont with child benefit.
Often wonder if oaps in states have had it as favourable as they have to pay for healthcare over there and don't have welfare state like we have here.
Wonder how many years it will take before its on the political agenda or if the torys ageist policy cost them the next election as media said ths policy of penalising job seekers and no benefits under 25s wll please the elderly tory voters within the party!Why the heck would another groups suffering please then?
I dont want elderly to suffer but do want some fairness.