When they post about problematic relationships or life situations? And CERTAINLY NOT when there are disabilities involved.
Three times on three separate posts I have seen this question today and it infuriates me. I would be interested to know how many of you who ask that question would ask it face to face to a struggling pregnant woman or mother in terrible pain in RL.
- They can't give them back and I am quite sure no matter whatever their personal situation they would not want to.
- It adds NOTHING whatsoever to the discussion or support requested, it's a total dead end question that ensures the poster goes immediately on the defensive and feels ever MORE shite than when they first posted. Not terribly helpful in abusive situations.
- No one can predict what will happen, life changes in a heart beat.
- It makes you sound unbearably smug and judgey and like you don't have much life experience tucked up in your little ivory tower.
Thank you.