for their sole use if they have been telling you excitedly for months that the whole family are saving up for it as a family present and now have enough money for it. Or to think that if you were planning on getting this particular gift, given that it is a big, expensive thing, you would run it by one of the adults in their household before going to the kids? Or at the very least if you must get the item in question, give it to the children early and thus paint yourself as a hero, you should get the actual thing the children have been going on and on about, not a substandard version of it which is going to need a crap-tonne of add ons to match up to what was originally saved for, and is second hand and therefore not under warranty and likely to break within a year anyway?
AIBU to be pissed off and mentally composing a refusal of the 'offer' and am I being a killjoy and looking a gift horse in the mouth?
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To think you don't tell kids you are buying them a big ticket item for Christmas
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HopingItllBeOK · 04/11/2012 22:07
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