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When I was 17 I had a termination in a local hospital. Five years later I had my dd with the same partner but we split up when she was 9, she's now 18. The only people who know about the abortion are my ex and me. I'm sure you've done the math and worked out this happened over 20 years ago. I met my OH 8 years ago and although we have a great relationship, I never told him about my termination. Now, his brother's wife has always been a bit 'off' with me and recently while drunk at a party she said to me 'oh rum, we've all got skeletons in our closets haven't we?' and since then I haven't been able to stop worrying. The thing is she works as an admin manager in the hospital I had the termination in. I'm worried sick she's been able to access my files? Is this possible? I can't sleep. I don't want the whole of my OH's family knowing this about my past, in my opinion, it doesn't involve them and I can't stop thinking about this. Help?
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rumngingerbeer · 19/02/2012 19:54
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