Our local school has a regular Sunday boot sale, me and my mum always have a stall there to sell bits & bobs, and my friend S comes too and has a stall. We do it more for the fun of it as we never make much money! S usually comes to my house on Saturday afternoon and goes home Sunday evening. There is one coming up mid-October.
S is currently going through a divorce, 20 years of marriage and her DH had an affair and is now living with the other woman and her DCs. S and I have been friends since our DCs were little, just over 10 years now. She's a lovely person and a good friend. She is very insecure and wants a lot of reassurance over pretty much everything, she has always been like this but it's got a lot worse since she found out about the affair.
I understand that she wants (and needs) to talk about things, but whenever we meet up, she talks about nothing but herself, her problems, what can she do, is she doing the right thing etc etc. TBH by the time she goes home I am exhausted, though we always have a lovely time.
I've just found out that on the weekend of the Sunday boot sale, there is a smaller boot sale at another local school on the Saturday. Mum wants to do a stall there, but if I tell S, she will want to come on Friday evening and stay till Sunday, and TBH I really don't want her to. I have every sympathy with her situation but she absolutely wears me out. I have said to Mum that we can do the Saturday sale but not to mention it to S; I feel awful doing it but don't want her staying here for two nights.
AIBU to do this? I have a feeling I am.
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oopslateagain · 27/09/2011 15:46
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